please without silly answers,i need good help,i went to the doc when i was in russia and she said that i still a vergin,but am still so scared,in the country where i live i cant see doc for this issue... what should i do?should i stay scared till i go to russia again,after 3years..... by the way am 22years old... thanx for the serious help in advance
2006-11-12 08:13:15 · 18 answers · asked by odadah_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Virgin: a person (male OR female), who has not had sexual intercourse. You don't need a doctor to tell you whether or not you have been with a man in this way.
A doctor's examination may conclude that a girl is a virgin even if she is not, or it can happen that a virgin may appear to not be, due to absence of the hymen. This thin tissue can be torn from sports activity, use of tampons, etc. It has to have a small opening for menstrual fluid to exit the body, and the opening on some women is much larger than others, which can lead to a wrong conclusion.
I hope this answers your question. But I'm wondering WHY you are so desperate to have a doctor guarantee your virginity?..... also,.... what country are you in where you can't speak to a doctor for this?
2006-11-12 08:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never had intercourse you are still a virgin. As long as nothing has penetrated your vagina your hymen should still be intact. That is how doctors know whether or not you are a virgin. This is usually, but not always the case. The hymen could be broken by use of tampons or fingers as well. I am assuming that you live in a Muslim country since you said that you can't go to the doctor for this issue. If you ever get into a situation where you must prove your virginity and your hymen is not intact say that you wore a tampon while you were in Russia. Good luck on your situation. Just out of curiosity. What country do you live in?
2006-11-12 16:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really clear on what you are saying but let me give this a try. If you mean a physiological virgin, meaning you have never had vaginal/penis sex, this means that your hymen has not been torn. You should know if you have. But you are not necessarily a virgin if you have had other forms of sexual intimacy, such as oral sex, use of sex toys, anal sex, etc. Hope this helps.
2006-11-12 16:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what is the issue.?.
Are you a virgin and don't want to be.?. Easily fixed, if that is your problem.
You should be able to determine yourself if you're a virgin or not. If you've never had sex, you're a virgin. I'm not a doctor, that's just the way it works.
2006-11-12 16:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not really understanding your question but a virgin is someone who hasnt had any sex(in america thats what we call them im not sure where your at) but if you have had sex your not and the way they can tell is there is a piece of skin inside of you that breaks when a girl has sex for the first time and thats why you bleed and she could tell by that piece of skin cause it doesnt heal after you have sex and disapeers and if its not there you have had sex thats the only way they can tell
2006-11-12 16:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by mschmitty920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your hymen was intact ,yes it does mean you are a virgin but hymens can break riding a bike and using the hymen test to establish virginity is outdated and unreliable. you know you are a virgin and your word should be trusted.you want ideas of proof no one can give you but this also works both ways,,no one can say you have had sex either.
2006-11-12 16:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had sex then you are not a virgin. This is not something the doctor can help you with. What does it matter?
2006-11-12 16:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eh..i dont get it, hun, what exactly is wrong with being a virgin? if you havent had sex, then youre a virgin,,nothing wrong with that, plenty of gals your age are..and um if you dont want ot be a virgin there is only one thing you can do and that is to have sex..and dont forget to use protection..yah
2006-11-12 16:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know whether or not you are a virgin..
Have you had penetrating sex with a man ?
If not, you are a virgin...
Don't worry about it...
2006-11-12 16:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not had sexual intercourse with a man you are a virgin if you want to know what sexual intercourse is that is another question.
2006-11-12 16:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋