2006-11-12 07:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Doctor Phil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend can't fix you so quit trying to make him say things about you. All that will accomplish is driving him away. You need help but to expect him to fix you will only ruin your relationship. You need to get counseling so you can deal with your problem. Your boyfriend is not a counselor he is just a guy.
Trust me I know this from personal experience, my girlfriend totally ruined our relationship with her constant neediness. When you act this way it ends up being all about you and his needs usually go unnoticed. Get out of yourself and into him.
2006-11-12 08:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, were you? When you told him that, what did you expect his reaction to be? Did you expect him to help you find self-esteem? If so, you're putting your friend in the position of being your therapist, and that shifts the balance in a relationship. Is that what you're seeking from friends? If so, OK; if not, you need to be aware of -- and take responsibility for -- the effect of your words on his behavior.
2006-11-12 08:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She assaults others on the grounds that she feels she demands to be bigger than them to be authorized. Rather than bluntly telling her that she is a jerk, spend a bit time along with her and ensure she feels adored. This woman feels harm and simply demands a bit concentration from any person. If you might have any manner you'll be delicate in the best way you inform her to give up deciding upon on different men and women, opt for it.
2016-09-01 11:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell him you are working on this and do not need his help that you are taking some self confidence classes for it. Tell him he is real nice and all but you need to move on. End of problem. If he rally likes you he will come back in your life later on.
2006-11-12 08:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spending normal time with you should be enough for him to learn how you feel about yourself,,do try to be around people who make you feel good as someone who makes you doubt yourself further can only harm your self-esteem more,and you do sometimes find,,men who get off from making those around them feel low generally hang around as they like the feelings of power it gives them,,keep your eyes open and trust yourself if you dont think things are right.
2006-11-12 08:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on improving your self esteem. If you don't like you, why should anyone else?
2006-11-12 08:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing with your emotions girl build up your self confidence before allowing someone in you'll be more secure and will be a more pleasant person to be around because you'll feel more confident remember you are beautiful in every single way don't let anyone bring you down
good luck
2006-11-12 08:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first don't never let no man no that they will use that against you first of all work on you're self and love you're self before you can love some one else
2006-11-12 08:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctor Phil, reposting questions is annoying.
Just leave it alone. He probably forgot about it.
2006-11-12 08:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by ~beauty~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably right. It's obvious that you're one to try and garner attention.
2006-11-12 08:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋