my best friend's cousin is a total hottie and hes really nice. but he lives 6 hours away from where i live. he doesn't know that i like him but im pretty sure he doesn't like me back. I have liked him for 2 years now, I just want to forget him. can somebody give me some advice on how i can get my mind off of him. Should i tell him how i feel or should i erase him off my heart. i need advice Big Time. please somebody tell me what i should do.
2006-11-12 07:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by dominicana216 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU AND HE'S AFRAID TO TELL YOU AND IF YOU TELL HIM AND HE LIKES YOU BACK MAYBE YOU AND HIM CAN WORK SOMETHING OUT TO SEE EACH OTHER MORE. ( BUT REMEMBER A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE GOOD BECAUSE IF YOU SEE HIM ONLY A LITTLE EVERY KISS IS LIKE THE FIRST...... SPECIAL)
2006-11-12 08:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Q-T PIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. Sounds like it's becoming a habit to think about him now and you probably do it almost everyday at least once. Come up with reasons not to like him and when you start having the feeling remind yourself of the negative things. That's what I did when I had the same problem.
2006-11-12 16:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think real hard what were the things that attracted you to this guy. then start to look for the same things in guys around you. that is your heart telling you what it needs not the guy the traits. was it the way he looked at you? smiled at you? talked to you? But if it was the traits of being hard to get and ignoreing you you will wind up with an abusive person these need to be changed.
2006-11-12 16:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is it love or lust? there are plenty of hotties out there, hon. and probably hotties that don't live 6 hours away! check them out! otherwise, you said you don't think he likes you....either you haven't given the guy a clue or he's just not interested. either way, you need to find someone else to crush on! best of luck! =)
2006-11-12 16:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in love with his looks which isnt gonna last forever. Realize that there is no point in liking someone that doesn't prolly even remember you and who sees you only once in a while. Tell youself that you don't like him and you wont.
2006-11-12 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're living a fantasy in your mind. Try getting interested in someone local who IS interested in you. Living on fantasies won't get you anywhere
2006-11-12 16:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta forget him and move on . He's gone so let him go . Once you do you will feel better !
2006-11-12 16:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fill and if he don't fill the same way then move on and then you can go on and meet some one else new good luck
2006-11-12 16:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop thinking of how your life would be with theis guy.
find a b/f and he will make your forget cause u'll think about how life will be with him
2006-11-12 16:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends...it's been 2 yrs - if he liked u he would have made a move by now. and he hasn't ...so...
2006-11-12 16:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋