everyday every word that comes out my moms mouth is negitive... she complans everyday and she just trys to bring outher people down with her whats going on?
2006-11-12 07:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by goochie1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's probably depressed and stressed or a little bit sadistic. if you be patient, nice, and helpful, and ecourage others to do the same, she might be less negative. does she get out much? give her a night off to do whatever she wants. she probably just needs to get away from whatever is on her mind.
2006-11-12 08:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Goochie12.
That's actually really sad. I don't believe that people intentionally want to be miserable. It just happens that way sometimes...
It's like depression...you just can't help it. Maybe this is your Moms' problem, she's depressed, and unable to talk to anyone about it. Maybe she's going through the change of life. There's so many different things that could be going on, it's hard to tell.
Try and remember though, like I said...I don't think anyone intentionally wants to be that negative. Maybe you could talk to her and find out if there's underlying problems....which is causing all this negativity. My daughter and I are best friends now that she's a little older...(18 years)...and if it weren't for her sometimes I would be negative as well. But I know I"ve got her to talk my problems out with. Maybe she needs you as well..
Good luck honey, I 'really' hope things work out for your Mom...and for you as well....! ! ! !
2006-11-12 08:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My mom is like that too. Somtimes I think it could be depression, other times I think she might be bipolar, or going through menopause. Best advice I can give is to not let it affect your life (no matter how hard it may be). Realize that even though it's your mom, you're both 2 separate people and that you can have your own positive life and future despite the fact that she's negative.
2006-11-12 08:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by tashatactics 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're slightly jealous. in view that no person is supposedly paying interest to you, you're mad. Mature slightly, throughout those serious circumstances. continually do not forget that your mom loves you, whether she screams at you or does not permit you do issues. She is paying closer interest on your sister merely becuase she has an extremely severe ailment. despite the fact that, i think of that your sister shouldn't call you a "b". If I have been you, i could take a seat down with your mom and tell her what's going on. clarify with regard to the chum concern, with regard to the cuss word, and what you think of roughly this finished concern with your sister having maximum cancers. i be attentive to, it is extra good to certainly DO it, despite the fact that it is going to pay off. it is going to relieve your stress, that's for specific. wish this enables and God bless your loved ones.
2016-10-17 04:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is the same way, when she's in a bad mood everyone around her suffers, she is a miserable person at times, sometimes I want to talk to her so as I start talking she just walks away. I pray to God that I never become like her. But to answer your question some people are just like that.
2006-11-12 08:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Grazia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Misery loves company. She probably has something on her mind that is not making her very happy. Is this a recent thing? Maybe she needs counseling or has depression of some kind.
2006-11-12 07:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, she hates her life and herself so she takes it out on everyone around her. Don't need to be a scientist to figure that out! LOL
2006-11-12 08:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is depressed
Or maybe the people around her are giving her reasons to complain
ummm I don't know
maybe you should ask her/ talk to her
2006-11-12 07:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tania 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom is like that its just the way of parents
2006-11-12 07:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be many things...
her age,
pms,
financial situation,
mental health,
lifestyle,
self-medication,
may be a professional can help ...Let her family doctor know....
No one is intentionally evil...no one...
2006-11-12 08:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋