This was meant in a sexual nature and the girl loved it. I went mad saying he was flirting but he disagreed! What do you think?
2006-11-12 07:52:16 · 23 answers · asked by Ajay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was flirting, the cheek!
2006-11-12 07:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was bang out of order!
What was he doing paying so much attention to another girl when he's with you?
He was most definitely flirting. Paying any kind of sexual attention to another is flirting, whether he accepts it or not.
How would he feel if you told another guy, in front of your him, that this guy is "Filthy"?
Has your relationship been good recently? Noticed any signs that he's perhaps getting bored?
Maybe its a wake-up call to you that he may be open to the attentions of other girls ...
2006-11-12 08:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jamma354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be upset about this. Don't wig out over this one incident, but DO file it in your memory bank. I would consider this a red flag and pay attention to how much he flirts and if he's concerned about how it makes you feel. This could be a big indication of how things would be in the future. Just ask yourself if this is something you could live with forever. It may have been an isolated incident, but this opened the door for you to think about this side of his personality. Good Luck...and remember, you deserve no less than someone that would treat you with love, kindness, and respect.
2006-11-12 07:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by milldan65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him what he meant when he said "filthy" to the girl. If he meant it in a yucky way, there is no way your boyfriend flirted with her. Why would a girl like it when a guy calls her filthy. If you trust him you'll respect his answer, but if you don't, start investigating!
2006-11-12 07:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jelly(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn... if -I- told a girl she was filthy, I would NOT be flirting with her... who the hell flirts like that? And what's worse, what type of women -LIKES- being told she's filthy, in a room full of people? He was probably just telling it like it is, her being a **** and everything... so I would not say it's flirting.
2006-11-12 08:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ain't much of boyfriend is he unless you two have a open relationship but ime guessing that is very doubt full cos if you was you wouldn't be posting on here would you nar if he is out with you he should be out with you and not giving other girls the come on don't suppose he managed to get her number did he lol
2006-11-12 08:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by towerlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking the P! Ofcourse he was flirting - you are a daftie if you let him convince you you were paranoid.. how exactly did he mean it!?
Watch him - he could be trouble. Go with your own instincts he sounds the type to convince you black was white..
2006-11-12 07:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, if a man told me I looked filthy I'd probably start crying!! LOL
2006-11-12 07:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If that is the actions of Your boyfriend, I'd get another one who only had eyes for me...
Sounds like he would never be faithful to you.
2006-11-12 07:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by A B C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do find it a little odd that he would say this to a stranger when you are out with him. He should understand where you are coming from.
2006-11-12 07:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by LadyDeville 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women would like that, but I would be offended. He was not being very fair to you.
2006-11-12 08:19:12 · answer #11 · answered by Linda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋