A question about girls being good friends with other girls?

Question

Ok so I have been dating a girl for about 6 months, and honestly I am in love with her. (I am in college she is a senior in High School)

Now, we are both friends with another girl at my college that I use to date, and my gf and this girl are Best Friends.

The thing is I have a question about whether or not their relationship as friends is normal.

They talk all the time and are like "I miss you" and "I love you!" and I would just assume this is okay, but then at parties they sometimes kiss each other and 2 nights ago they basically made out.

My gf makes jokes that this other girl is her "girlfriend" and that me and the other girl are her two favorite people in the world.

Is their relationship a normal girl relationship or should I be worried?

Answer 1

This is a basic teenage friendship. They are close, they are comfortable with eachother, party together, and yea, when they're at parties-- may make out. It seems normal to me! I did some stuff like that when I was a senior in highschool and after highschool (until I settled down and stoped partying as much) too. I would say the only time you should start "worrying" is if she starts being suspicious and not talking with you about anything. If she's joking around and being open about her friendship, I highly doubt anythings going on... because if it were, she'd be trying to hide it from you.

Answer 2

I am an advice expert. So if the girl you are presently dating, and she is best friends with your ex. OK. in other words, This is not normal. If they have a counselor at school. SEEK IT. Your girlfriend. Is physically having a relationship with another girl. And that would make her A.K.A a lesbian. And I know you wouldn't like that. Move on.

Answer 3

Huh.....well, not normal unless she is a lesbian!!
I think ur gf is just doing this to get attention, and this other girl is just participating to get attention from YOU.
Just talk to your gf about it, and say you don't like the fact that she kisses other girls. She may be lesbian, who knows?? You gotta get to the bottom of it some time or another!
Good Luck, and have an awesome day!!!

Answer 4

A friendhip with a woman is extra of a acceptable relationship, somebody like one you paintings with in an workplace, or a classmate with whom you talk training correct issues, etc. whilst the formality turns into much less and the involvement turns into extra by making use of way of sharing very own info, spending time with one yet another for purposes different than what a acceptable relationship demands, and assembly one yet another extra in many circumstances and at distinctive places for relaxing and interest, then the lady-chum/boy-chum reltionship is composed of play.

Answer 5

I'm a grown woman, 41 yrs old...I do tell my dearest female friends I love them, I miss them, and we do smooch cheek or closed lips occasionally when greeting or saying goodbye...

...however we don't make out, even when drunk (pretend flirt to be silly, but nothing more).

Should you worry? I can't say...talk to them, or at least your girlfriend, about it...if you cannot communicate, you don't have much of a relationship.

Answer 6

umm i've never been in a situation like that with a girl. maybe you should talk to her. I know my friend says "i love you" every time she sees me, but its a joke. nothing like kissing or making out. I dont know

Answer 7

Lol doesnt sound too normal... dont hear about that kinda stuff often. i think its up to you what you consider normal and not normal so make a decision and then go from there.

Answer 8

their relationship is a little unhealthy. Maybe talk to your gf about your concerns.

Answer 9

they could be just like kissing each other like a "bye see ya later" that everybody does. Or it could be the WRONG kind... you know what i mean

Answer 10

ummmmmmmmmm yeah you should be a bit worried. if two girls make out.........thats not normal. you should talk to them and ask them bluntly. then you will get your answer quiker.