Ok, i involuntarily asked this girl to homecoming and was really nice and sweet. Shortly after, she began to say bad things about me behind my back. After about a month of constantly hearing bad things, i totally bitched her out real bad and made fun of her for being fat and dumb. My only regret was that i was really cool with two of her best friends who I though wud totally hate me after. Yesterday. the two friends talked to me about it and said that they we are still cool since my ex-date was the one doing it for no reason but they also said that it would be a good idea to apoligize. My concern with this is that my ex-date is the type of person who wont even care when someone does something like that, she will prolly just keep saying bad things and the apology wont mean anything.
2006-11-12 07:43:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't apologize. It seems to me like she got what was coming to her.
2006-11-12 07:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Paul P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...sounds like your ex-date has a lot of personal self esteem problems. I would apologize only because what you said was mean and you are better than to stoop down to her level. She may look back in the future and at that time the apology might mean something to her. Either way...be the bigger person and then just leave the situation alone.
2006-11-12 15:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it anyway, but only apologize for having said bad things about her, since this seems to be your only wrong doing. If she doesn't want to except it, that's fine, but the apologizing to her isn't just for her. It's for you, her friends, and anyone else, in that you are doing the right thing by apologizing and they will be aware of it. If the apology doesn't mean anything to her, then at least you've done the right thing and it'll mean something to someone.
2006-11-12 15:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mishandled it it but you were right. you should not have resorted to name calling other wise you are not at fault. I don't think you need to say sorry she wronged YOU.. do apologize for the comments about being fat and dumb, say that it was wrong of you to say it but other wise stand firm on the bitching her out.
2006-11-12 15:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yea apologize for your roll in the incident ( at your leisure)and i would not concern myself with how she deals with it after wards, it's only your character that you need to concern yourself with.
2006-11-12 15:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Reenell W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey an apology could never hurt. And if nothing else...you will come out being the bigger person
2006-11-12 15:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by santacruzhippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fair enough,,it may not improve relations between you but it may just make you feel better for trying to do the right thing,,once given,,she cant complain and moan you are just rude,,you know you did something inappropriate and you wish to make amends.it has to count for something.
2006-11-12 15:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it would be nice cause thats kinda mean and it would show other girls you arnt a jerk and then they would want to date you no girl wants to date a jerk or even a guy she has heard is a jerk
2006-11-12 15:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize...just because your a better person then her.
2006-11-12 15:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..if she going to act like that
2006-11-12 15:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Am so Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋