when I went to go visit him last night he had his cell phone on silent , he fell asleep and I found the cell phone flashing I answered the phone and I said "hello, who is this" it was a girl voice but she said I got the wrong phone number, and he grabbed the cell phone put it on the floor and then he pretend that he was sleeping and then he just picked up the phone off the floor and put it under the covers and went back to sleep and I just got up and left he looked at me like I was upset. and I got in my car and left. t what do you think? we been togther for 3 years he says he truly loves me and want to stay with me and he not in to other girls but me. I really just dont know
2006-11-12 07:36:04 · 29 answers · asked by merry c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he is cheating on you
2006-11-12 07:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does have room for privicy. But in the space, he can have other girlfriends. Maybe not sexual, but other friends.
95 % of time when, I'm out to dinner or private time with a close friend or family member....I do turn my phone on silent or leave in the car. Personally, I do this out of respect for "our time". There are few reasons and very few people who need to keep a cell phone on 24 hours a day.
I have a friend that has usually 9 - 10 girls calling during a 4 pm to 11pm section of the day. Each day, every time we go on an outing, they call. So, he is usually texting, calling, or answering.
2006-11-12 07:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dale S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen darlin you must have some kind of gut feeling about this. You have to know deep down inside what the answer to your question really is. He is doing it for one of 2 reasons 1-He doesn't want his time with you interupted or 2-He is getting some on the side. Do me a favor and get the book "TEN STUPID THINGS WOMEN DO TO MESS UP THEIR LIVES" its by Dr. Laura Schlesinger. Read the book and take a good long look at yourself and your relationship. Most of all listen 2 your heart. Best Wishes, Kaci - fairytale447@yahoo.com
2006-11-12 07:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by LukkkyChrm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust him, it has to be more then one phone call. Either you are over reacting to nothing or he is cheating. Either way, consider whether you really want to be in that relationship.
But if he is getting calls from women who hang up, and you want to confront him about it. Then you can look through the directory on his phone of calls made and received. If you see a repeated number and it matches the "wrong number" you know something is up. Repeated long calls are what you need to watch for.
2006-11-12 07:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's hard to believe such a "good" girlfriend as yourself would answer his phone. It's his phone. Second, you could be jumping to conclusions. A female voice? Sister, aunt, friend, ex, who knows- he'll tell you if he really loves you. You're over reacting and he had every right to take it from you. You were both rude. Both of you should apologize and have a little faith in him if you really love him.
2006-11-12 07:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally it sounds like he doesnt want to be with you. There should be no reason that he has his phone on silent unless he is trying to hide something. And the way he hide the phone like that. I might want to try and find out what he is hiding in that phone
2006-11-12 07:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he got somthing to hide coller him about it or get hold of his phone when he not about then get hold of the phone number if she left it on phone go through his phone see if he has rang that number before believe me men can be very crafty but they are also stupid so if he has somthing to hide u will find him out in the endgood luck love
2006-11-12 07:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by ELIZABETH C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. that is werid. at first i thought he was just beeing sweet like he didnt want to be distracted when you to hung out. but that is weird that another girl caleld was it a friend or maybe she truely did have the wrong number has this number or girl appeared on his phone before. or was this a first time incident?
2006-11-12 07:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be cheating, but he could just want to have uninterrupted time with you. the chic could have just been the wrong number. she could have just been a friend that called to talk and when she heard your voice she didn't want to cause problems so she acted like she had the wrong number , and still he could be cheating on you. ask him. see how he reacts. watch his body language.
2006-11-12 07:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
It could be that he doesn't want to be disturbed when he's with you.
It could be that he doesn't want you to know when other people call him.
We don't know him, so can't say for sure...but you can discuss it with him. If you don't have trust in him, the relationship isn't going to go far...so get this settled so you can move forward with him, or move on without him.
2006-11-12 07:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That explains everything right there, hes cheating. If I was you, i wouldnt go back to him, or go back to his house. let the other girl be with him, since, she most likely knew that you guys were in a relationship...
2006-11-12 07:39:30 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋