what do you think of people who spoil their child,grows up to be a brat,and expect you to like their kid?

Question

my ex have a 6 year old,and she is a brat.she lies,she used to do things she new it was wrong because she new my ex would get mad at me if i told her anything.she was always envious of everything my kids have.she would try to break their toys and my ex was always fine with her behavior.he always said,shes the girl,so we spoil he.theres no need to be tough on her i dont want her to b a tomboy.but man,we have two boys together,and when she was around,he even told my boys that she was a girl,and if she did anything to them,they couldnt hit her back.and then he always expected for me to stop doing everything for my kids,just to take care of her braty demands.the grandparents dont even want to babysit her.she lives with an aunt.what do you hink of 6 years old brats?

is not that i didnt love the little girl,but i thought her behavior was unaceptable.and about boys hitting girl,t is wrong,but if a girl hits a boy,i would expect for her to get hit back.even if it was mine.

Answer 1

You need to set some boundaries in your home. She needs to follow the rules, and her Dad needs to back you up on them. No need to spoil the child because she is a girl. I am a step parent, and sometimes without us, spoiled children would go on in life and feel that the world owes them! I would definitely get your husband on your side and if he won't, then family counseling is in order. As far as her brothers hitting her back, sometimes that works for a child that likes to hit. Sometimes, this back fires and a punching war is on. I would not encourage the hitting. I would put her behind in time out when she hits. 1 minute per year of age. Eventually, she will get the idea that she doesn't rule YOUR kingdom..

Answer 2

I feel sorry for this poor child, it is step parents like you that make life so bad for them. She is six years old and how old are you? Try some parenting class (you and your husband) this child will keep acting like this as long as she feels unloved and it will only get worse if things don't change. Yes the boys should be brought up with the knowledge that hitting a girl is wrong. I will pray for this girl as it seems she needs a lot of help. This child needs love and direction. If know one loves her be nice and sign away her right and maybe she will be placed in a loving home.

Answer 3

i think of the guy who ought to confer with them would be your husband that way they gained't sense it is all approximately you !!! I had an identical situation with my in-regulations yet my hubby confer with them and comply with no longer over break them by way of fact thay will enhance wanting all they want and while ever they want and it is not any longer stable as for toys I what we've carried out on account that they have now 8 grandchildren is to make an exchange present between the familly aunts, uncles, grand'ma , grand'pa mom , dad, and of direction the babies that way grandma & grandppa won't break any of the babies and that they gained't sense undesirable any wasy they purchase them extra can provide to all often outfits yet low-fee yet i think of maximum grandprents are like this they're going to desire to break they grandkids!!! stable success !!

Answer 4

Send me her details and I will adopt her. Living with me may come as a shock, but she will at least grow up to know the world does not owe her a living.

Answer 5

i am one town over from like a really rich town and the kids don't appreciate any thing we just got like a 30 million dollar extension on the school and their already trashing it, also the parents don't teach them responsibility on kid total a new car his parents gave him for his 17th birthday and a week later he had a new one

Answer 6

You have a lot of spelling mistakes but smack the kid in her mouth and teach her some respect.

Answer 7

I want to hurt them.