im depressied and im getting help. But now im dating this guy . and he wants to know everything but also wants me to get better soon . what should i do
2006-11-12 07:30:10 · 5 answers · asked by amanda o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to keep your depression under control, work towards building your relationship. first build a solid you and a solid couple and try not to down load on him. everyone has their problems, and it could cause distancing if your depression gets to be a big part of your communication.
depressive people usually depend on others in ways that later affect those around them. be aware.
2006-11-12 07:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the cause of your depression? How long have you known him? How close are you to him?
What you should do is look after yourself, eat well, exercise as much as is comfortable and useful, get involved with all sorts of things involving people and use the help you are getting. Do lots of new things if possible also. The guy you are dating is another matter. If you are really keen on him and/or you are really close then he's probably going to prefer straightforward honesty over any messing about.
Describe your experiences to him at an appropriate time, be dead honest and only go into detail if a) you are comfortable b) he is comfortable and c) if he requests it. For him he's likely to accept you as you are and you may find that you never really need to bring it up deliberately-unless you NEED to talk. Go with the flow and follow your intuition.
2006-11-12 07:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by karnautrahl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be straight up with this guy..
and tell him how you really feel...and tell him why you are depressed and stuff like that.....
koz then he might be able to help you and plus it good to talk to someone you trust also...
2006-11-12 07:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by MistyBlu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If you want to stay together, he's going to have to know.
2006-11-12 07:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by James Bond Chickz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him
2006-11-12 07:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋