What should I do?

Question

I met this guy over the summer and he races. My dad introduced us. We've gotten closer but i'm still shy around him. I havent seen him in 3-4 months because he lives 10 hours away. It seems like he likes me 2 but i'm not sure. He's kind of giving me mixed signals. I sent him about 2 emails asking him how he was because i havent seen him but he never emails me back. Our parents keep in touch and he sent the message that he wasnt ignoring me it was just b/c he's been busy with school and football but he's talked to alot of girls on his myspace profile and he hasnt even sent me an email that has said just hey. I couldnt give u the details on how we talk to eachother and how good he treats me and how close we've gotten but with the things that i've told u do u think that i have a chance or do u think it wouldnt work out? He keeps talking about moving down here to do business with his dad.And they've invited us to stay upstate at their lakehouse and go to a ski resort with them.

Answer 1

He is obviously too immature and does not understand true feelings of that capacity yet. Sounds like you may be raising your level of expectations a little too much and a little too early as you sound young also.Good Luck!

Answer 2

hey hon all i can say is be patient. only time can tell and lead you in the direction you should go. But if he hasn't even made the effort in lest say the next two months then move on. Guys don't realize something good is around until your gone or its too late. Then if he realize it and only if you are ready do you try and see where it goes. Good Luck

Answer 3

You know what? There are plenty of fish in the ocean. Look elsewhere. In the meantime, if he does move to your town and start up a relationship with you, good. If not, don't lose your time. So many others out there just waiting for you.

Answer 4

Long distance relationships dont work...forget him!

Answer 5

He's a player; it won't work out!