OMG.... My bestfriend likes this boy but he doesn't like her... a few weeks ago, when we were on a trip... I was drunk and he was too... and we had a one night stand...... Then yesterday when i went to the doctor he said i was pregnet...what should i do?
2006-11-12 07:04:14 · 19 answers · asked by Connie... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...
i'm only 18....
2006-11-12 12:40:27 · update #1
wow well i would forget your friend she'll get over her crush. If i were you i would try to contact the babies father. and i know you might be scared now but a baby is a blessing and i would just spend the next nine months getting ready for the arrival.
2006-11-12 07:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you are screwed. Litterally. Anyway, yeah so you messed up big time, now your friends is going to hate you and you are pregnant by an a$$hole that more than likely will not take care of the baby. The only thing you can do is tell your friend before she finds out someother way. You might have a chance to save your friendship if you tell her.
2006-11-12 15:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell ur bestfriend that the boy didn't like her and u should also tell her that u went on a trip and u got really drunk u and the boy and yall had sex. then u went to the doctor and he said u was pregnant
2006-11-12 15:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend everything that happened. True friendship last always. She will eventually get over it. It would be worse if she actually dated the guy and it was serious. Just expect angry feelings from her at first. It's human nature, and try not to make the same mistake again. Honesty is the best policy and it will work out in the end.
2006-11-12 15:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing u can do......u just hav 2 face the fact mommy...... Well, u just hav 2 explain 2 ur friend that u were drunk, and he was drunk...and u 2 had- u no what. And, u 2 just hav 2 accept the fact that ur a mommy now. Sorry, hope the best 4 u 2. Who knows? maybe u 2 will get married?
Hope My Advice Helped,
â¥Jazzyâ¢â¥
2006-11-12 15:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Jazzy™♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you want to do about the pregnancy. Go through it, or terminate?
If you terminate then no one need know about it...if you decide to go through with it then you should tell the guy.
If you decide to go through with the pregnancy, decide if you will keep the baby or not. If not then that will end it for you (at least for a while)...if you keep it then you've got to look at how you will raise it, support it (I don't know if you are an adult or teen, independent or living at home).
The guy who you had sex with, is also responsible and so you'll need to decide if you want to make sure he provides support and to what extent.
You have much to think about...if you are a minor, then you'll need to get your parents involved, especially if you decide to have and keep the baby.
Good luck to you...lots of decisions to make...I hope you are ready for them.
2006-11-12 15:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him; but get ready to deal with the consequences of your one night stand; being drunk is no excuse for your behavior!
2006-11-12 15:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 things
most important thiing talk to the guy
second thing talk to ur friend
its going to be bumpy and she'll prolly call u a backstabbing whore or something because people who are pissed off say stoopid cruel **** just expect and prepare for the worse but hope for the best!!
2006-11-12 15:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by Mikayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about if you want to keep the baby first of all. It'll change your life and it's a lot of work. If you don't want to keep it then I wouldn't him. You could tell your friend just don't mention who the father was. If you want to keep it, you need to tell him and your best friend. You're in a tough situation. Good luck.
2006-11-12 15:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell the guy. see what he thinks and how he reacts. then tell your friend that you made a huge mistake and before she overreacts you want her to hear you out and the whole story then simply tell her you are really sorry you didnt mean to but you hope she will still be a part of you life and the life of you and your new baby. hope it all works out well.
2006-11-12 15:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋