how the relationship was making you feel and he said he understands what you are saying. then after he says he understands what you are saying he falls asleep. how would that make you feel. ive been having some problems with my bf and i wanted to talk to him about it. the next thing i know the conversation was over with because he fell asleep. i felt like it must wasnt to important to him about the way i felt. what would you do and think?
2006-11-12 07:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put it in men's terms. Keep it short, tell him how you feel without accusing him of not loving you or caring enough and just ask politely for what you want. e.g. Would you do such-and-such for me or stop doing such-and-such for me, or I'd like more/less of this/that or tell me you love me more often, etc.
2006-11-12 07:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have woke his a** up. so while he was awake did you do most of the talking? because if you did then this was not talking at all. you were complaining. just because he fell asleep does not mean he does not care what you feelings are. you need to have this talk with him again. but this time talk that means you say something and wait for him to respond. maybe you will get a better answer than him saying he understands.
2006-11-12 07:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a time when he's not dog tired. He probably was trying to tell you what you wanted to hear so that he could get to sleep.
2006-11-12 07:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was tired! Do not read into this too much. He heard you. Men just do not react the way women do..........
2006-11-12 07:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he works hard or you talk to long...give him a coffee before you start talking next time
2006-11-12 07:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋