I really don't talk a lot and am pretty shy. If I talk to a pretty girl I'll mess up because I will try so hard not to screw up that I will act up tight and not fun. And it probably makes me seem wierd to them. I heard girls like a man to be confident but don't know the truth to that. What do girls want in a man? This question is for any girls to answer cause I know guys can't really answer that. Please HELP!!!!! Also, how do you start a conversation out of nowhere without it seeming creepy.
2006-11-12 06:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be a good listener first.
think positively and act accordingly.
2006-11-12 07:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to remember that "confidence" is completely subjective. For some women, a man who is loud and obnoxious is confident, while some women find a thoughtful, intelligent man to be confident.
Sometimes it's just a matter of talking about everyday things . . . did she see a current movie or TV show, read a certain book, or does she have the same school course as you do? These are basic things that you can talk about . . . and then it builds from there, and the two of you might start talking about things such as family and friends.
No need to just walk right up to someone and be aggressively flirtatious. Just be cool, and take things slow.
2006-11-12 07:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be You dont try to be anything other than that because if your a fake when you meet them you will have to keep up the act. I am shy to but I got this little flirty look about me that makes a man know I am interested. Just say whats up How you doin what brings you out ---just keep the convo simple and she will start talking and then you will get relaxed and enjoy what you have started. Just remember to breathe:)
2006-11-12 07:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by ejonescss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking a lot of questions,make sure they are information that you want to know, then take that information and talk about that, for example what did you think of a movie. If you have seen the same movie then you have something in common, that is what you are searching for common ground, then conversation is easier.Think about this we can all talk about things that we are familiar with ,the object is to find them
2006-11-12 07:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-12 07:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by geordie8r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋