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This guy I liked turned out to be an ***, I told him to leave me alone.
But he keeps on coming back and says he doesn't understand why im ignoring him now ( but I made it VERY clear to him)

Could he actually be coming back to me because now ''he's changed'' or realized that I wasn't a whore and that I did want something serious???

2006-11-12 06:54:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

its not that he cheated on me, but he wasnt a serious guy ...

2006-11-12 06:59:40 · update #1

maybe I could test him?? hmmm

2006-11-12 07:05:06 · update #2

17 answers

That's a player's MO(motive operative) to keep "redeeming" himself for his ways and if he's acting like an a** then you don't need to be bothered with him. I had this problem with a guy who I met on a personals website and he keeps trying to get me to date him when I know what he's really wanting and I am not giving it to him. Players like to do that it's all a game to them and sounds like this guy is trying to hit your soft spot so you'll open up to him. Players take advantage of people's feelings and whatever else they can do to them. He should understand why he's being ignored because he's busy playing games and you're letting him know you're tired and you caught on to his game. Players are pathetic morons who really have no concept to what it feels like to be used and abused which is what they're good at. Players also believe that they're all that and everyone wants them and even brag that they can't be played when they can you just have to know how to reverse the game on them to where they have no idea they're the ones being played right back. Word of advice never give players anything because they're not going to reciprocate nothing back since their goal is to play around until someone gets sick of them or catches on to their games and lies.

2006-11-12 07:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 2 0

Nope. Don't give him a chance. He's telling you that he won't cheat on you anymore because he realized you weren't a whore? What the hell... That is the most dysfunctional excuse I've ever heard. This means that he was with you because he thought you were a whore? He screwed you over once...don't let him do it again. Have respect for yourself!

2006-11-12 06:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok. I'll tell you my opinion. if you have been with him for a long time then give him a second chance. But if you have not been dating him that long and he cheated on you then more then likely he will do it again. If he did it this early in the relationship or whatever yall had he probably will do it again. Ok hope this helps and just remember this is my opinion and you don't have to agree. Good luck :)

2006-11-12 07:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Qt PIE 3 · 0 0

No, he's not coming back to change. He's coming back because at the moment he can't find anything else. Once a playa always a playa. There are much better guys out there than that.

2006-11-12 06:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 1 0

well no. you know the leopard cant never change its skin colour. even if u jik it.
any way why not try studying for at least two, to see if he really has changed.
you know a player hates when a girl ignores him, and will do anything to get her. the name of the game, is get her, use her and dump her.

2006-11-12 07:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by talktome 2 · 1 0

Neither of those reasons, actually.
He's a player, he loves the chase.
If you gave in, he would would not only disrespect you, but he would just drop you.
If you want, you could test him by establishing very strict limits, and sticking to them. Then see if he sticks around.
But I don't think its worth your time.
Good luck and don't give up!

2006-11-12 06:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 2 0

Your kidding right? Tell him to bug off or your getting a restraining order against him. Guys don't change and he probably just doesn't want to be the "guy who was dumped" There are lots of nice guys out there who aren't jerks, pick one of them. .

2006-11-12 06:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0 0

or he is still just the same and won't let a girl go by.. you can never know.. best way is to follow your heart and expect anything.. i would tell you to saty away from him but then who knows he could just end up being the best thing that could have even happened to you.

2006-11-12 06:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0 0

once a player, al ways a player.he wont change.

And he keeps coming back, is because he thinks his sweet charm will be the ticket in getting into your pants again

2006-11-12 06:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by duster 6 · 0 0

Guys dont change unless they want to and no one can make them do that. This guy is trouble. I say just stop talking to him and find someone good.

2006-11-12 06:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0 0

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