I am in US and my GF is in India, she worked there. She just moved on from my life because of my big stupidity. Please search below subject for real issue regarding breakup in Yahoo Answers: “How do I get my GF back .. serious issue.?"
However, I realized and decided to stay away from her. My job always kept me out of home and My GF, our love was mostly from distance.
I am going to meet her last time, though she is saying me not to come but I want to go because I hurt her so much probably this will give her some healing.
I don't know what I should say her on meeting. I might start crying to see her. I planned to stay there a week, see her daily and come back. I'm afraid if my little long visit would infuriate her. What’s your view?
Thanks,
2006-11-12 06:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Youve stated already.. she has said 'no' on your visit! That should be enough, right there!
theres a reason why she is not wanting you to come. Have you thought about, this could possibly hurt her even more? She's needing to move on, her distance is part of her healing... let the poor girl go. Let her heal... You wont be helping her!! She needs this distance.......
2006-11-12 07:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by debs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really for the last time- as you say, what's the use of going now? Get over it and move on Its only pain for both of you. MAKE THE TRIP AT A LATER DATE IF YOU MUST. NOT NOW. She is saying not to come.
If you are trying to win her back-WELL, that's another story and you take the risk of infuriating her. Do you have a chance to win her back. Its your risk.
2006-11-12 06:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by muchmemory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with her, and now she is telling you to stay away from her. But you want to go see her anyway, and possibly cry when you see her. She is already upset--do not make it worse. If you ask her again, and she says not to visit, don't visit. She may need some time to heal on her own.
2006-11-12 06:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldsend email or letters back and forth instead of see eachother. When you see someone you haven't seen long and then have to let go of them again it breaks your heart trust me i have grandparents uin germany and i live in arkansas :(
anyways if her job makes her go to india if i were her i would be looking for a new job
2006-11-12 06:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by wackcat55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said dont come then dont maybe she moved on with her life and got over you at some point , dont know what it was you did but , maybe she doesnt want to face you anymore, id just let it go and go on with your life as she did! maybe just freinds is the best thing and keep in touch through e-mails, just dont go! good luck
2006-11-12 06:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend to be doing this for her. Leave her alone and let things move on. Going there will accomplish nothing.
2006-11-12 06:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋