2006-11-12 05:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Take action! NEVER ignore the fact that your son is getting bullied. Soon it can get way out of hand...trust me i have seen it. If he keeps getting bullied he is gonna wanna commit suicide...And that is NEVER the way to go! Talk to his homeroom teacher or maybe a school counselor? Maybe he can take some classes alone so he doesn't have to be around bullies. I'm sure the school would be happy to just change some of his classes to ignore the bullies as long as possible. if this gets way out of hand, like he comes back bleeding or something then i would talk to the principal. And those bullies should be ex spelled. And your last resort...maybe going to a private school were people pay more attention to your son or home schooling? If you still need some help contact me at gymnastflipz@yahoo.com. I feel for your son and i dont want ANYTHING to go wrong with him..it can screw him up for life trust me. GOOD LUCK and please tell someone about this, it may seem small but it could end up huge!
Love, Kayla
2006-11-12 05:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Maddie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I don't think there is much you can do. You could try going to teachers, principle, etc but they aren't going to be able to watch your son every day and kids are going to make fun of him even more because "he" got them involved. Kid's are mean and it just gets worse in high school They passed a bully law in my area where the bullies are fined $500 for the first offense but every time someone got turned in for bullying it could never be proved so they didn't get anything, not even a slap on the wrist. Is there another school he could possibly go to? I would hate to see the bullying interfere with his academics. Sorry I couldn't suggest more . . . good luck.
2006-11-12 05:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me stop this now, my 13 yr old son was bullied at school we tried to let him handle it , it got worse so we took it up with the parents of the bullies and the school. It stopped once the parents knew about it.
2006-11-12 05:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Motts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont let him deal with it on his own, u contact the school now,most schools have a bully law from kg up. i would contact the pricipal first if that dont work go to the superintendent, also alot of schools today have a resource officers u may want to talk to, true he cant be watched all the time but i think the school can make it clear to the kid or kids of this that it better stop.and also make sure your son, just ignores them where he stays out of trouble good luck
2006-11-12 06:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to School and talk tyo his teacher and have a discussion with her or him.
Find out the real reason. It could be you son is not totally telling the truth. If he getting bullied make sure you stay involved.
2006-11-12 05:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for a meeting with the principle. Then if nothing happens call the bully's parents (dad is best) and talk to them. Then if that doesn't work, take your kid out of the school, Homeschool is good.
2006-11-12 08:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied when i was in school i did not like it at all I wish i would have been able to stand up to them even if i got my *** kicked atleast i would have stood up for myself and not run away i think that is the best thing for him, i was never taught how cause i didnt have a dad to teach me how to do so, I regretted my mom telling me to turn the other cheak and in so doing damaging my self esteem making me feel Insecure. so what he needs to do is to learn the reality of what is really going on Bullies are mostly talk if he talks louder and uses his aggression to stand up for himself. and chances are he will not get hurt but if he does it doesnt last very long but running away will hurt him for alot longer than anything else
2006-11-12 05:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set up a time to talk to his teachers and/or principal. see if you can find out both sides of the story. a lot of times when kids get beat up there tends to be more to the story than just simple bullying. if it is just one kid picking on your kid for no reason, however, alert his teachers/principal that you know there's a problem, call the other kid's house if possible, and hold all parties INCLUDING your own kid accountable for what happens.
2006-11-12 08:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by bulldogsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to end it now. dont embarrass him just maybe email the teacher or call the principal..but whatever you do do not confront the bully yourself.
2006-11-12 05:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST GO STRAIGHT TO THE PRINCIPAL, IF THAT DOESN'T WORK DO NOT IGNORE THE SITUATION. TAKE YOUR KID OUT OF THAT SCHOOL AND DO HOMESCHOOL OR TRANSFER TO ANOTHER SCHOOL. THIS IS NOT SOMETHING TO MESS AROUND WITH.
2006-11-12 10:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋