we are email penpals and fell in love over the summer but are kinda related and see eachother every year, we're friends.
he's 18 i'm 16.
he used 2 email alot now he is taking loonger and loonger to respond and i keep asking what's keeping him busy and he keeps giving different excuses.
the thing is i love him and want 2 marry him someday, i'm obsessed w/ him, i try not but.....
so what should i tell him NEXT time he replys?????
ps i dreamt he replyed last night.lol.
2006-11-12 05:25:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop w/ the retarded answers, i got enough of those.
2006-11-12 05:28:45 · update #1
Did you say you are related...that's gross and how is asking you "are you related" a retarded answer. If you're related you shouldn't be with him. It's called incest.
2006-11-12 05:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm glad you both like echother. I hope you get married and all and have a good life. Buy hunny, you cant blame him for not e-mailing you back right then and there. Most people are soo busy and dont think to chech their e-mail too sometimes. I know you might be mad, but try not to be. Hes probley busy, and you're thinkin of the worst things possible i bet about what hes doing. I betcha hes not! Maybe the excuses are the truth, maybe not. Hard to tell, butcha know.. give him time. Things have to work out.. maybe call him or something!
your in love & related...in todays society--isnt that wrong?
but anyways...
give him some space first
try to make him think(at least) that you arent that obsessed with him. and hold off communication started from your part for a few days.
if he really likes you. he'll send you a note wondering where you've been & that he misses you...
Good luck!
2006-11-12 05:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that mabey you should try hanging out with some other guys mabey from your school. And that might get this 18 year old off your mind. Mabey you shouldnt get mad either. he may not purposly be not answering your emails. mabey he is doing some other things. you should tell him you love him to probably would be the smart thing to do cuz he might be to scared to say it to you first. but u sound obsessive over this guy ... and that isnt good to be. hope i helped a little bit.
2006-11-12 05:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's giving you the cold shoulder by taking longer and longer to reply and making up lame excuses every time. He's hoping that you'll pick up on the hint and stop trying to contact him. He's probably feeling like he wants to break things off, but he doesn't want to be the first to come right out and say it and hurt your feelings (classic man-mistake), so he's slowly ignoring you. I say, send the guy one last email or message or whatever your means of contact is and tell him that you won't put up with being ignored and that you can't be with someone like that.
There's TONS of guys out there. He's not the last one on the planet, trust me.
2006-11-12 05:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out girl ,have you ever heard the phrase ,treat them mean keep them keen !!!
Trust me it works ,if i where you i would`nt email him for a while see how long it is until he emails and asks "babe where are you, miss you`re wee emails"If he don`t do that well you have seriously freaked him out and he thinks you are a bit too much !!
Just relax and have fun if its love it will happen naturally ,no need to force it !!!
Good luck and if he don`t get in touch with you then start fancing some one who lives closer !!!
2006-11-12 05:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on from him, he is in a different time zone, the reason he takes so long to email you, is because he is out with his friends, his age, and you need to do the same, because he is going to hurt your head. Just keep him as a friend, and start to have some fun!
2006-11-12 05:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it right when you said you are "obsessed" with him.
You are 16, so stop wasting your time with an e-mail pen pal. There are plenty of boys your age living right near you, & aren't "kinda related" either. (I hope) So get real, & get a real guy. This thing you are doing right now is just a fantasy.
2006-11-12 05:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love & related...in todays society--isnt that wrong?
but anyways...
give him some space first
try to make him think(at least) that you arent that obsessed with him. and hold off communication started from your part for a few days.
if he really likes you. he'll send you a note wondering where you've been & that he misses you...
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2006-11-12 05:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a real bf, he is tired of sitting in front of the computer all day. He has gone out and gotten a real life. Move on!
2006-11-12 05:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just make casual conversation with him. You are "kinda" related. It's not a good thing to develop feelings for someone you are related to.
2006-11-12 05:29:30 · answer #11 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋