On Thursday, my friend (we'll call her Lauren) came into class and told me how she met the hottest guy at the gym she works at. When she told me his name, (we'll call him Matt) I was shocked. I told my friend about how I've liked Matt for over two years now. She said "OMG.. are you serious??" and that she sometimes talks to him. She told me that she would get us to go out, and that we would call this whole endeavor "Project Matt". As my first "homework assignment", I had to stop being all weird and awkward around him, and send him an IM and talk to him online.
So I did. Then, Lauren told me to print her the chat so she could see what we talked about. I did that too. She even gave me her locker combination to put the chat in her locker, and her phone number in case I got nervous when I talked to him. She said she would make a folder called "Project Matt" where I could put all of my progress in, and that since I have her locker combo, i can put anything I want in it regarding the project. She said that Step 2 is on Monday, and that she will talk to him. Lauren told me she would try her best to get us to go out. Should I trust her? I havent known her for a while but I sit next to her in 2nd period everyday. She's one of those really outgoing & popular girls, but she's really nice. Anyway, I really care about Matt and I miss him to death. He goes to another high school and I dont see him at all anymore. I dont want to get hurt. I know it's stupid to have a middleman helping you with a relationship, but I can't ask Matt out on my own. Even though I've known him forever, we aren't really that close. I know this is all so third grade, but do you think I can trust Lauren and her "plan", and do you think she can really get Matt and I to go out? Please give me your honest opinion. Thanks...<3
2006-11-12 04:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by fadedsmiiles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she can "talk him into" going out with you -either he wants to go out with you or he doesn't. As far as whether or not you can trust her, I doubt you can. My advice - don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't just focus on Matt - flirt with other guys who you find attractive and keep all your options open.
2006-11-12 05:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "Project Matt" thing seems a little immature. But you probably already know that.
Honestly .. my first thought when I read through what you had said, was Laura's gathering evidence to use against you.
But maybe I've just watched "Mean Girls" too many times.
Honestly, if you just talk to "Matt" and get to know him, even if it IS just by IM's, eventually you can turn that into phonecalls and then meet up and hang out and whatnot. If you do it on your own, without "Laura's" help, you'll feel SO much better and it will deffinitely give you a confidence boost.
You need to suck it up and say "Thank you so much for your help, 'Laura', but I think I'm going to try this on my own."
Just a suggestion.
2006-11-12 05:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isn't she going a little bit too far with the "project" and printing the chat logs and the folders and everything. i understand she's trying to help you but i think the whole "put the folder in my locker" and all is a little weird. just have a face to face talk with her and tell her how the online thing went no need to make it like a school project.
2006-11-12 05:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
upload her as a pal. talk over together with her on fb, get to be attentive to her nicely, and alter into sturdy pals. textual content fabric and hangout besides. Take it sluggish. do not rush issues too quickly. which will merely convey approximately screwing up. Make her sense particular. compliment her continuously (yet not too lots). don't be clingy. Play it cool. and then, one effective day, ask her out. in case you have performed your playing cards suitable, she would be waiting to probable say confident.
2016-10-17 04:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust her. Nobody does anything without there being something in it for him. You just have to take the initiative on your own and say,"hey I never see you anymore....let's get together for ----and catch up"
2006-11-12 05:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by manicureme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could just be direct but the Plan seems feasible so go with it but next time take some paxil and stop being so young
2006-11-12 05:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by lex1979x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TRUST HER she might be your friend but you can never trust teenage girls.get a spine and ask him yorself .
2006-11-12 05:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rodney Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust her!!!!!girls can be evil take it from me i no!!!!!!<2 faced> anyways asked him out yourself!!!!!
you can do it udon't need her to help you!!!!!!
good luck
manda♥
2006-11-12 05:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋