Ok, there is this girl, that I think i'm in love with. And we both know we like eachother, but she can't afford to have a serious relationship. I can totally understand, since the jerk-wad she dated before cheated on her. And we flirt a lot,but each and everytime we are in the middle/beginning of a really cool conversation,some random guy(s) come and pretty much take her away from me. It hurts so much... Getting to the point: We sat together on the bus, right, thing is, i got her really upset. I made her cry even. Because i brushed her off like she was nothing...because i was so frustrated with the way she was treating me, and how she was discarding me.Long story short, we ended up making up and we got really close,physically.We held hands,and we were inches away from eachothers faces.I don't know if she wanted me to kiss her or not,but i didn't,It was an 8 hour bus ride home,nd we spent it crying,apologizing, holding hands,and holding eachother.Even though she doesn't want something
2006-11-12 04:52:17 · 6 answers · asked by Nobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many times it is difficult for us to deal with a broken relationship. We tend to ride the emotional roller coaster, only to find that the only way to get through the pain is to ride it out or vent it. While on this venture, we tend to grab at companionship in any way that is available and we regret actions that were based in revenge or anger. It is a good thing that you didn't kiss her at this point, because you have given her the chance to see that you would not take advantage of the situation. You should not get angry because she is associating with someone else, especially when she is not your significant other. Just be supportive and let her make the moves and decisions, when she is ready to do so. To be a rebound man is to deal with the reactions of the most recent relationship, you need to be a better person and be patient and open to outbursts.
2006-11-12 05:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being too understanding. If she were really in love with you, she'd want to be with you. Just you. And she'd be okay with making it official because really, that's for the benefit of other people- to let them know you're taken.
While the ride home on the bus sounds sweet, that doesn't mean anything. You already know she likes you, and that's all it was- she was cuddling with someone she likes.
If this has been going on for a month, or when it gets to be a month, and she still doesn't want to be an official couple, you need to give her an ultimatum- be with me in title in front of everyone, or lose me.
2006-11-12 05:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me sounds like she is just wanting to date around. Either wait for her to want to settle down or move on.
2006-11-12 04:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if she just got emotional. If she's told you that she doesn't want a relationship, I wouldn't look to much into it.
2006-11-12 04:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you recommend which you meant the word "recommend" in its unique meaning or are you too recommend to fulfill my recommend standards? Oh, i will start moaning approximately your mixing up all those m-words...
2016-10-17 04:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man and just ask her out.this type of crap wont get u anywhere.u'll end up just being friends.to become her boyfriend just ask her out so she would know that this isnt only a friendship
2006-11-12 04:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Fly_Boy97 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋