all my boyfriends have cheated and im scared that my boyfriend is doing the same, i have no signs really, but i just think he is! is it just me being paranoild! please help
2006-11-12 04:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by charlotte slater 23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your been paranoid. Watch him just to make sure.
2006-11-12 04:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you just gave a good description of what paranoia is. Having a fear over something for which there is no foundation or basis. You are carrying baggage from past bad relationships into the present one. The past is past, & the future hasn't happened yet, so live in the present.
You are better prepared to recognise when he really does cheat on you, so you'll know what to do, if & when that really happens.
2006-11-12 12:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you accuse without having any signs?
Thats not fair to him.
If you want to keep him around, make him want to be with you by being nice and pleasant, and not creating drama. Causing him grief will chase a guy away faster than anything.
Don't bring your past baggage into this relationship. Everyone is an individual and shouldn't be judged based on others mistakes.
Focus on being a girl/lady that a man would want to keep around.
2006-11-12 12:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paraniod
2006-11-12 12:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your past problems you have trust issues, but everyone is not alike. You have the problem, you need to work on yourself, buy books on self esteem. keep the lines of communication open with your boyfriend.
2006-11-12 12:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY MAN WILL CHEAT...ALL MEN ARE DOGS.....IT IS WHAT IT IS....DONT TRIP JUST DO YOU.....I DONT WORRY ABOUT A MAN CHEATING BECAUSE MY BROTHERS HAS TAUGHT ME THE GAME AND THEY ALL HAVE WOMEN AND LOVE THESE WOMEN BUT STILL MANAGED TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS....
2006-11-12 12:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Unique 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have no signs it's probably just paranoia
2006-11-12 12:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur kinda paranoid!!just relax and until you have enough info don't take any further actions!!!
2006-11-12 13:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a magnet for cheaters.
2006-11-12 12:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe, u dont have enough info, but its possible at the same time maybe not, who knoes
2006-11-12 12:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by starprosecutor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋