help me pease?

Question

i really like this lad, i hav known him for 4 weeks. he is really nice. bt the one promblems is he has agirlfriend i didnt no at the start and when he told me i didnt dump him because i liked him. i knew it was wrong so. i moved away he begge me not 2 go and old me he really like me. i still wnt and i have now come bk 2 where he is. he was there wen i got bk bt now i eel really stupid coz i dnt want to carry on doing it bt cant stop how do i say wot i need 2 say 2 him. he is around me all the time bt i no it wrong help me plz

Answer 1

beanz

Answer 2

Sit him down. Tell him that no matter how you both feel, you don't want to carry on in a relationship that feels wrong. Tell him that you've made up your mind and won't be persuaded otherwise.
Tell him if he really loved you, he would let you go.
If it's your place, tell him that you don't want him to be hear when you come back in 3 hours time. If it isn't your place, just leave.
Go out, see a friend, or your closest parent and talk to them about it, let them help you overcome the feelings you will have.
Hopefully he would take the hint and leave.

Answer 3

You need to be blunt and make hime choose, before you get too far down the line that it would break your heart. What your doing isnt right by the other girl and it certainly isnt right by yourself. What would happen in a few months when you have fallen for him completely and he says "well its been fun but I dont think its right to do this to my other g/f" or something similar, he cant have it both ways. Im not sure how much you know about this person either but make sure he's not a con artist, my sister was conned after knowing a guy for 2 months, its not something you can get over quickly. He's not worth the pedistool your putting him on.

Take Care

Answer 4

You know he has a girlfriend, so you have to be the strong one. Don't see him any more, he is using you. If he really liked you he would leave her. but you do not want that any way, because he would end up doing the same thing to you. He is a player! Want more for yourself. Find a guy, who will only want you!

Answer 5

You need to tell him how you feel. Both about him and the situation you are both in. I understand you feel bad about him already having a GF and you weren't to know until he came clean, but he has to realise that he can not have both of you.

Tell him that untill he makes up his mind and chooses, you will keep away from him and the relationship. This will mean that he has to decide without you saying it's her or me (guys hate that kind of pressure and we start to panic). I know this will be tough for you, but it really is the only way to know where you stand.

I wish you the best of luck. :o)

Answer 6

u should play with him and have another person on the side and make surehe finds out. let him find a number or receipt insuating that u have been with another man.

if it doesnt bother him, he just wants one thing

I think he only wants one thing anyway

he loves his girlfriend and likes youbecause u r som new pu$$y

i hate to say it like that

Answer 7

You clearly know what is right, so, do it.

You know as well as anyone this will not work out with a good result.

Answer 8

why do you want to be with him hes cheating on you too when you think about it. Just look him in the eyes and tell him that he needs to choose

Answer 9

Tell him how you feel. Thats all you can do. If he begged you not to leave then he has feelings for you too Let him know.

Answer 10

Sweetheart you need to tell us what your question is and you have to learn to spell aswell .

Answer 11

dump him move on you will end up getting hurt