ok, i really like this guy named collin, but he goes to another school, i only get to see him on wednesdays at my yyouth group, i dont even know if he likes me, how do i get him to even notice me? im going to play in the band with him after thanksgiving, he plays bass, what the heck should i do????
2006-11-12
04:27:57
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telln him would be sooo hard, bcuz i dont really know him...
2006-11-12
04:31:00 ·
update #1
whether or not you'd be playing in the same band with him...try be good at what you do: in the band, in school, or elsewhere. there's nothing like being good at what you do that gets a guy's attention the first time, evertyime...makes him interested and go, "hmmm..."...and keeps him interested.
if he doesn't go out of his way to get to know you, or is too shy to take the first step in that direction, don't rush it; use the "pause" to prepare yourself by knowing what interests him (nothing like something in common to start a conversation and keep it going).
if his interests are different from yours, take it as a challenge; educate yourself about them so that, when you do get the chance to speak to each other, you should be able to ask intelligent questions about the things that interest him. you may know what he's talking about, but at least he will be flattered enough to "educate" you about something close to his heart, simply by asking the right questions. (some guys can be incurable "experts" on things they love to do!)
without sacrificing a little mystery about yourself, the fact that you'd be playing the guitar and he the bass should give you a resonable opportunity to talk to him...like getting your chord progressions right "according" to his bass run / chord pattern. that should be normal enough in a band. after all, you really don't want to sound dissonant, either as a band or as a pair.
know what? if it turns out that you have to work on your chord harmonies outside of the regular rehearsal days/times, you might suggest a one-on-one practice with him an hour or two before band rehearsal, or even on other days (then you have a good reason to give him your phone number, for him to call ahead if he wishes to practice at your place).
lastly, make sure you're genuinely and sincerely interested in him as a person; faking interest always shows, sooner, rather than later.
good luck!
2006-11-12 05:04:50
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answered by saberlingo 3
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Oh girly, just go to him and say "you play really nice" all the other things will be done by him! you don't have to even walk from that moment, he will carry you to bed himself.
You really oughta know guys more, they never lose a chance like that, if he do so he is not a man.
Believe me, I'm a man
2006-11-12 04:39:21
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answered by ASARA 2
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ok...on wednesday, start talking about favorite bands and how he started bass (small talk) but make sure it is only the two of u, then somehow, get his screenname or phone # (whatever you prefer) think of a creative way to do this...ex: "i know this real great band, they have a website but i cant think of it right now...giveme your screenname and i'll im it to u."
2006-11-12 04:33:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Do just that let him know with the bump into him routine on Wednesday for a analogy of his possible interest in you ....we males like aggressive women!
2006-11-12 04:37:29
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answered by Jettie B 1
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go up and talk to him girrlllyy!! dont be nervous to go talk to him at alll..just think like you are talkin to a buncha your girlfriends! you could talk to him about the band that you all are gonna be in or maybe just about youth group!! just be confident girll!
2006-11-12 04:31:16
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answered by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2
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Go up to him and flirt with him. Maybe hint to him you think hes cute or you like him. Things will work, just let him know that you like him.
2006-11-12 04:35:30
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answered by ? 2
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On a piece of paper, write your phone number, and email address down, and slip it into his hand, and say if you are interested, give me a call. And if he calls then you can take it from their!
2006-11-12 04:31:43
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answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6
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Just telll him you like him. It wont be as hard as you think. Or just start talking to him more.Well, good luck!
2006-11-12 04:33:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Guys like compliments. Give him a couple and see if he will run with it.
2006-11-12 04:30:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Try to start a conversation with him.
wing it from there.
2006-11-12 04:30:45
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answered by Fred B 2
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