Hey Everyone,
I'm 21 and been dating since I was about 16. I live in Canada and for me to "live" I find I have to put on about 10-14lbs in the winter to keep me warm. I take it off in the summer (intime for bikini season)
Anyhow I find men these days to be incrediably shallow. In the winter with just my extra "winter weight" they wont rarely talk to me, ask me out or anything. But when I loose it (and I always do) they wont stop calling, asking me out, etc.
What are your opinions of this? Anyone else notice the same thing?
2006-11-12 04:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey...you need to find men that love you for your inner beauty!
2006-11-12 04:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are really shallow. But what they dont realize is when we get older things are not going to be the same. We are not going to be eighty and be super skinny and beautiful its whats on the inside that counts. Tell these men that if they cant like you in the winter dont call in the summer!
2006-11-12 04:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're one hundred circumstances shallower than human beings 60 years in the past. those days, too many human beings place too plenty emphasis on actual visual allure. The media and society additionally play a extensive section in this. to function to that, that is an oversexed society, the place many non-virgin adult males/ladies won't even provide virgins a super gamble. a guy buddy and that i are the two virgins with countless super characteristics who get rejected with the help of non-virgins for all time.
2016-11-23 17:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old winter weight for survival card played out in the 60's
If you put that weight on in the right places you'd more popular than ever, that's all I have to say about that.
2006-11-12 04:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say heck with those shallow idiots and do your man-hunting in the winter. Find one who loves you for who you really are, then knock his socks off next summer with that bikini bod and let the shallow morons eat their hearts out!
2006-11-12 04:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I'm pretty shallow but an extra 10-14 lbs wouldn't bother me at all.
Now an extra 50 on the other hand...
2006-11-12 04:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How cool to have this extra insight into men that most women would never see.
I don't think most men even realise how visually oriented they are. It's funny and sad but mostly funny.
2006-11-12 04:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by SnowBunny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I like women who are not skinny but at the same time not too fat. I ignore skinny women (who think they have the perfect body) when they show interest in me. I like women with some flesh
2006-11-12 04:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we couldn't generalize men as such. Honestly, most guys I've met/dated are so shallow. But again, I can't generalize them. :-)
2006-11-12 04:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL IM FROM CHICAGO IL AND IM AFRICAN AMERICAN.I WEIGHT ABOUT 170 AND IM 5'4 WITH A VERY SMALL WAIST....IM THICK AS HELL...I NEVER HAVE ANY COMPLAINTS...AND IF I DID **** EM...I LOVE MY BODY AND MY THICKNESS,**** EVEN THE WHITE BOYS TURN THERE HEADS AND TRY TO HOLLA....REALLY YOU MUST BE LOOKIN UNATTRACTIVE OR SOMETHING WITH THE EXTRA WEIGHT OR MAYBE THE GUYS IN CANADA LIKE SKINNY *** FEMALES........NOTHING TO TRIP ABOUT...**** EM....
2006-11-12 04:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Unique 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋