..and if so .. why can't they admit it.
Is an apology a act reserved for men only ..?
2006-11-12 04:15:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually they're wrong most of the time, but by arguing their point they doing two things: One, they are testing the man they're with to see if he has the balls to call her on her bullshit in the manner fitting the woman. Two, again the same thing except to gain "hand" or control over the relationship. If you ever notice men in commercials and sitcoms are rarely right and the woman is always ethereal and correct......comics make fun of this as well. Actually the opposite is usually true but we "nod" our heads to the woman so to make her feel better about herself and create security within the relationship. On the two reasons mentioned before I always take the manly route and look her in the eye and state an obvious truth to kill anything further she has to say whilst putting her in her place. And, honestly, that is exactly what most women want....A real man. A man that will say bologne and take her around her waist, plant a big kiss on her face, say: shut up, lay down and just enjoy it! lol. Figuratively speaking. They don't admit it because of the same things.....by looking wrong they lose control in the relationship. The worst thing any man can do is relinquish control in the relationship. The reason a lot of relationships don't work, especially nowadays is because most guys I see are wimps.....Be a man and have a plan. good luck!!
2006-11-12 04:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets get this straight, men and women are wrong a lot of the time. If confronted with it in a manner that is demeaning, then yes, neither a man or woman will admit to it or apologize for it. We as a society have a great knack of making the other gender feel like crap, when they are wrong. No one wants to be wrong, however, it's going to happen from time to time. Perhaps if we didn't make such a big deal about it and act like mean children, when we prove the other is wrong, then maybe...just maybe we would all be able to admit we were wrong and apologize for it.
I have no problem with saying I was wrong about something. So long as I'm not made to feel a fool of for having been wrong. We all seem to love to rub in one anothers face. It's like a competition. nah..nah..nah..nah...you were wrong...STUPID! Isn't that how you feel most of the time?
I know many men who would not admit they were wrong, if their life depended on it. I have known many women who would not admit they were wrong either. So it works both ways, my friend. We all do it, and perhaps if we all stopped, this world wouldn't be in the shape it is in today.
2006-11-12 04:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh your getting into deep water there mate. I think it is safer to ask questions about religion or how the universe was formed than to ask questions like this. If you do ask make sure she doesnt see the question or your life wont be worth living.
if she does find out I believe there is a new intake of recruits for the foreign legion about to start.
2006-11-12 04:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by dont know much 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Females are wrong 99.9% of the time...the only .1% of the time they are right is when they agree with men!
2006-11-12 04:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course we are wrong sometimes - but we like the men in our lives to overlook that fact if they truly love us! and i apologise all the time for anything at all, but maybe that is only because i feel guilty v v v v easily!
2006-11-12 05:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rarely. We do apologize, just not as much as men as we are seldom wrong.
2006-11-12 04:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by patsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! women aren't always right, their wrong alot of the time.
I have no idea why those who owe an apology don't give it. I always have, when I knew I was wrong.
2006-11-12 04:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if it was easy for them to accept and admit they were wrong,,,,, often they would have to admit it was wrong to get involved with the guy they are,,,, so this blindness to seeing their wrongs is a built in relationship helper
2006-11-12 04:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true, I'm wrong quite often and always admit and appologize. You've just had bad luck probably.
2006-11-12 04:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope! We are always right, we make the rules and if we get any sniff that a male understands the rules, we simply change them!!
2006-11-12 04:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by deebradley2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋