To make a long story short...I met this guy on a dating site and he claimed he was single and I broke up with him a month ago...Guess what, his wife calls me...and I told her..he told me..he was single and I also told her the website to go on..in which she did and found his profile..She was upset with me at first, but then, I told her I was sorry, and I didn't mean to hurt her or their newborn baby...I told her, she needs to comfront him..because he's probably dated other women on that site..
I went to the moderator/owner on the site and told them this guy is married and they stated, it was nothing they could do and sorry, that I was hurt..
Guess, what? This guy is still on that site...
Can anyone think of a way, I can let women on that site know...he's married and has a newborn baby, so they won't get hurt like me...I want it to be a way...so he can't trace it to me...
Please, help me and other women who want get hurt by this liar/deceiving man with a family.
Thanks
2006-11-12 04:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by XXXXXXX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone wanted to know the site...also, I forgot to mention..my bestfriend met someone on another site....Please, do not let these two men,...know that I'm involved...The first guy name is Vincent...true.com...screen name is vindale and email address is tchalla@yahoo.com and the second guy is on the website called onlinebootycall.com...he's married also...his screen name on that site is edmondmeba and his email address is
edmondmeba@yahoo.fr...he's the guy my girlfriend dated...Again, I want to be very discreet and no problems with neither of these guys...They don't belong on either website...and also hurting women and taking advantage of their feelings and their heart...Oh by all means...it needs to be stopped...and I feel for both of their wives....Thank you...
P.S. Can someone tell me how I can take my email address off of here and put another email address.. Thanks, everyone for your advice and help...
2006-11-12 12:13:58 · update #1
Well, I've been there. If you have the time you need to create fake profiles with pictures of good looking girls, and catch him in the act and then post it. Depending on the dating site, there are ways to let others know he is a cheater. Even if you send him a "shoutout" or whatever they call it on that particular sight and if it even saves one person from getting hurt, then it's worth it. He deserves the pay-back girl. Go for it. I wish I could help you do it, too cuz I've been in your shoes!
2006-11-12 04:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sad to say there isn't alot of things that you can do unless you can post blogs or something on your profile about him. And then you can't do that without him knowing or finding out. If he is like that then why wouldn't you mind if he knew it was comeing from you. There are alot of guys out there that have that secret fantasy and relationship and are married and don't even care. You might have to just take it as a lesson learned and if you have a guy that wont give up enough info then you know something is up. Sad to say there are few women out there just like that to who just want to have some fun and don't think about those that could get hurt. Just be cautious next time before you get into something serious and be ready to take what is offered and laugh at it if you can
2006-11-12 04:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is any way to post messages on this site then try that. Also try to get his wife an account she can go on and show that she's married to him. Try and get his wife to call the company and get his account information she can hack on and change it and post pictures of his family. There is only so much you can do. I really think his wife should leave him especially if he is going to keep this up. But that will be really hard on the child. I see what you're saying though just try to get the word out the best you can. I wish you well
2006-11-12 04:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's preventing you from stating, on that site, what you just shared with us here? Couldn't you write some warnings at that location? Each of us who goes to a site bears responsibility for whatever we run into there, for it IS the big wide world, where goofballs and creeps run amok. You can warn, but you won't make it stop (unfortunately). Cheaters and deceivers will continue to do what's in their hearts to do.
You can post the site in your question here, also, letting this forum know where to find his site (nothing wrong with sharing).
2006-11-12 04:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you name him
2006-11-12 04:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe there is a good way, beyond what you've already done. Nothing that couldn't get you arrested anyway.
People lie about their age, their appearance, their marital status. The way I see it, any one who tells me a lie I'll discover as soon as we meet is doing me a favor. That's much better than running into a nasty secret after you've married the person.
2006-11-12 05:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a dog and and will aways find ways to * date* outside of his marriage. I can't see how you can stop him. I mean he is good at the game he tricked you ...right? I am sorry this happend to you... I have had it happen to me as well. JUst be glad you go out when you did.
2006-11-12 05:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by broc1212 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing much you can do at this point but to not see him again. be greatful that you found out as soon as you did and take it as a lesson and move on.
2006-11-12 04:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't stop him. Don't waste your time.
You just want to get even. Instead, get a new life.
2006-11-12 04:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Trump 2020 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women like you don't matter; what matters is that guy's family...his wife and his newborn baby.
2006-11-12 04:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋