i went out with a guy from work on november 4th. we both had a good time everything went well. at the end of our date he said that we have to do this again. he asked me if i needed his phone number and i said no i have it. i don't drive so my mom drove him home and he was ok with that. before he left the car he said that you have my number and i have your number and we have to this again sometime. i saw him again at work on friday and i asked him if he wanted to come to my house for dinner. i said that i am 80% sure that my brothers girlfriend is going to be my sister in law someday so to be nice i have invited her to come over for dinner. she said that she feels wired having dinner just me,my brother and her and that i should bring a friend. i asked him what he was doing monday night and he said nothing he has to work the next morning and wants to go to bed early. he told me that he will think about it he said he will phone me that night. he never did. i am trying to be nice .
2006-11-12 04:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by sunshinebutterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he likes you, if he didn't he wouldn't have taken you out. It is too early to meet with the family, don't you think? some people take meeting the family as something serious. He probably just doesn't feel like he can become your official bf, one needs time for that.
Go on being nice, I am sure that he likes you.
2006-11-12 04:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mondschein! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be negative yet. Like he said, he was going to bed early, which means he probably fell asleep and forgot. Or perhaps he wanted to go out with you again, but wasn't quite ready to meet your family. That could be a bit nerve-wrecking, depending how serious you are about the person. It sounds like you two have only been on one date, so you cannot accuse the poor guy for not being ready to have dinner with the family just yet. It really does seem like he likes you. But instead, try inviting him to the movies or somewhere where you can be alone with him. However, if this does continue and and he never calls you or invites you anywhere again, then you know it's time to move on. For now, however, things don't seem bad.
2006-11-12 12:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by aquarius_bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's to soon to be inviting him to a family dinner. try spending more time alone with him. also telling him you're brother's girlfriend will most likely be you're sister in law before long, and then inviting him to dinner with them may have scared him. he may have thought you were trying to hint in a round about way about a more serious relationship. just call the man and tell him how you feel( be honest) honesty is allways the best way to start any relationship.....GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-12 12:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by tlk2medve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he just doesn't feel comfortable with going to Your house yet, maybe You both need to spend some time alone together doing some couple things, movies, dancing etc, then when the both of You knoe each other better he will be more comfortable with Your family. Give him some time...GOOD-LUCK!
2006-11-12 12:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Catherinefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he wishes to continue seeing you. That's one of the bad things about dating someone from work. Take it from a man, that if a man is interested, he will call.
It doesn't say anything about you, sometimes people just don't connect. In my opinion, I would move on.
2006-11-12 12:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be nice. Who knows what is going through his head. He may be a nice guy, but take your time. since he did not call, may be he is a bit shy, and does not want to tell you, that he is a bit uncomfortable around folks. You could say, it will be alright, I will be their! I hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-12 12:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you aren't special to this guy. He probably still likes you, but in terms of friendship.
2006-11-12 12:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound promising. if someones really into you they can afford to lose a few hours sleep... how long does it really take to eat dinner?
2006-11-12 12:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just talked to him yesterday. He said you have a B.O. problem,and he's not interested.
2006-11-12 12:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Carl The green's keeper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are we supposed to know what he's thinking?
2006-11-12 12:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋