He is 33. I am 22. We had sex, he wants to "spend more time with me." I met him in my hometown where I was just visiting for the summer. I go to school like 2 hrs away. When I was home, he called me on his break, when he got off etc On almost a daily basis. He made sure I had what I wanted, even if it meant going out in a thunderstorm to get it. At first, I thought it was almost disgusting. See, he is looking for a wife he has told me, I said I am not ready for something like that. Funny, because I am growing feelings for him but now I wonder is he turning me into a booty call because of my apathy for his feelings. Should I begin to treat this man with more respect than my toy, will he even respect me now since I put him on the backburner?
2006-11-12 03:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should treat everyone with respect.
You may not be ready for marriage yet, but he may be. Have you considered whether he might be the right husband for you?
If you decide he is, don't let him get away.
2006-11-12 03:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single... I am just a little older then you and have only had one serious boyfriend. I am waiting for the right guy. Being single just shows that you are a strong person. Simply be your self, be confident in your self and you will find the right friends and boyfriend. Your crush on your teacher will most likely pass. Im not sure how to stop other then realize he is probably not the guy for you being that he is a lot older then you. I hope I helped. By the way, Chat rooms are really unsafe and it would be very wise if you stay off them. Find good things to do in your neighborhood and volunteer to help others.
2016-05-22 07:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like you said, your young. No reason for you to feel any guilt.
If you enjoy what you 2 have right now, just enjoy it. It doesn't have to go any further, your the one in charge of that.
I think older men go for the younger women because yeah, ok, their firmer, but they also think their dumber. The ego kicks in for the men and they feel like their young again, and "still got it". lol Kind of funny.
I just wish more younger men would start going for us middle aged women. We're fun and experienced! (wink wink*)
2006-11-12 03:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEZ, 33 is an OLDER guy?????
You jump into the sack with someone you consider "almost disgusting" and now wonder if you're just a booty call girl.
Strange.......really strange.
2006-11-12 04:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Trump 2020 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are just looking for a "sugar daddy" than go for it. but if you know he is looking for a wife and you are playing him than you need to move on. older men tend to date younger men to make themselves feel younger. you consider 33 as an older guy, boy what is life coming to.
2006-11-12 04:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always show older people respect. Because men mature slower than women, you are probably at an equal maturity level. also, your probably hot, and older women are so much more "used". You younger women are cleaner and fresher. Not as "used"
2006-11-12 03:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I don't understand is it's only an 11 yr. difference.Is that considered an older man being with a younger woman?Wow !
2006-11-12 04:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there is any specific reason why an older man would want a woman who is much younger. if you are developing feelings for him, don't let his age hold you back.. give it a chance and see how things go..
2006-11-12 03:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite and nice.
If your having feelings and don't want them then stop the relationship.
Men like all women and younger women may be more able to accept him. You haven't grown jaded or guarded.
2006-11-12 04:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do younger woman talk to older men?
2006-11-12 03:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋