My girlfriend and I have been living together for a year and a half, things go very well 95% of the time then the other 5% I have a so called friend that calls and talks with her and tells her all the details of my life behing my back in secret and tells her not to tell or that I'll be mad at him this creates very hard times at our home what should I do?
2006-11-12 03:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Pain in the Ass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds to me as if your friend has some ulterior motives of his own. First if he were truly your friend he would not be calling your girlfriend behind your back. But then again it should bother your girlfriend that your friend is calling her and asking her not to tell you. If either of the relationships are important to you...........Watch this closely. Good Luck.
2006-11-12 08:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious about how you found out your friend is doing this. If your wife is telling you, it would be easy to let him know that what he says to her she is telling you and confront him. Most of the time people will back off once they know that their two-faced personality is out in the open. What kind of things could he be telling her that is making your life harder. If you aren't doing anything wrong, just let it pass. Be sure to keep a strong, open relationship with your love, as it sounds as if your so-called "friend" is trying to drive a wedge.
2006-11-12 11:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the other 5% really shouldnt have any bearing if the other 95% is as wonderful as what you say it is. As for your so called friend, so to me like he may be trying to stir the pot a bit and wrap your lady up in his bed sheets!
2006-11-12 11:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like your friend is trying to screw you up. Either he's jealous of your relationship or he is just a trouble maker.
2006-11-12 11:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your friend and quick. Get rid of your girlfriend to because she is listening to that crap. Bless your heart you can't trust anybody.
2006-11-12 11:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the friend to lay off, or you will be ex-friends
2006-11-12 11:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by peafunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not tell him anything and except him for how he is. Mention to him how much you do not appreciate this and that he needs to speak to you about this not her.
2006-11-12 11:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋