he/she used to be the opposite sex would you continue the relationship?
2006-11-12 03:27:10 · 22 answers · asked by hankthecowdog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe the sex of a person is as important if you truly care or are in love with this person. The problem I would have is how long did it take you to find out. I believe in honesty and if there is something that may determine whether you continue seeing that person after the first date, I believe it should be revealed. It is basically up to your heart and if you can overlook and forgive what was withheld from you. Once you forgive someone, the issue should never be brought up again or affect the relationship.
2006-11-12 03:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shalla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The genitals do not make the person. The soul makes the person. If someone has had reassignment surgery than that is the sex of the person. Always has been and always will be. Yes I would continue to date that person. Gender reassignment is a huge step in ones life. I would comment the person for making such a life altering decision. That would be a strong person if you ask me and it is not cheap either.
2006-11-12 11:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by kim j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would, especially if the only reason you found out was because they told you... but as a transsexual myself I may be a bit biased. And it makes me very sad to see how many people would have a problem with it (tho I can at least understand the people who are concerned about having kids.)
2006-11-12 18:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! I would feel like I was a homosexual if I continued in the relationship. I don't care what surgery can do - you were born with XX to be female or XY to be male and that is it.
2006-11-12 11:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one of them tries to explain to me that it doesn't matter, I'd say, "Really, does that mean you can make a baby?"
I have nothing against transsexuals. I understand they need love like anyone else, but I just can't see myself dating one.
Also, I've never hit a woman, but if one of them tricked me into dating them, I think I'd have to make an exception.
2006-11-12 13:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a bit of a shock, but if you love the person, what's the big deal?
2006-11-12 11:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by robert43041 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think so, if you can find a great person with a dick then you can find a great WOMAN! with a pussy, and that was born that way.
2006-11-12 11:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To me it should not matter who they were but who they have become and how life has made things diffrent for them. If you love them things like that should not matter.
2006-11-12 11:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by movu101779 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gross no! besides 4 the fact that he/she didnt trust you enough to tell you...
2006-11-12 11:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by PaRtYqUeEn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're joking, right?
2006-11-12 11:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋