my friend said it hurts i want to know if its true
2006-11-12 03:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by victoria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts some more than others..
It is an individual thing..
It depends on your size, the boys size , how well you
are lubricated and how excited & passionate you are...
The first time often hurts a little but if he takes his
time and does it right you will probably enjoy even the first time.
After that, it gets better....
The skill of your lover is very important...
2006-11-12 03:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is awesome experience I had with my GF when she loose her virginity to me. That took me to real heaven that was the first time for both of us. She got hurt in her membrane rupture by my penetration and hugged, kissed and did many things to me that was a real happy moment in my life. She too said though my penetration hurt her, she enjoyed the happiness that gave it to her. That feeling will come in your life only once in life so don’t miss that
2006-11-12 11:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't hurt if he is gentle. It is however a different sensation until you get used to it. Don't forget to use a condom every single time. Even if he says I love you.
2006-11-12 11:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by kim j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if you're ready and with someone you feel comfotable with and youre relaxed then it shouldnt hurt but if your tense and worried, then 1. your not ready to have sex and 2. it'll hurt
2006-11-12 11:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by just_a_metaphor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..it hurts like helll. Use lubricant!
2006-11-12 11:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really hurt me, which my first was a blk man!! And u know those sayings
2006-11-12 11:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for men but for some girls it does, if u tack it slow and do it with some one that really love u and feel for u it would be okay but be ready for yourself not some one else
2006-11-12 11:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by merry meet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it does, Make sure he goes slowly and use some lubricant
2006-11-12 11:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by tinybabecrista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't... but it also depends on the girl.... I've heard (and this makes sense for why i didn't hurt) if the girl is very athletic.. and active then it will not hurt her... b/c the hymen is already tore...
2006-11-12 11:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by hopelessly_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That hurts every time just don't want to know about.It is sad.It is don't easy.
2006-11-12 11:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋