Ok, my mom is allways in a gripy mood enymore and my family is allways complaining. My dad is constanly telling me all these bad things about mom and viseversa. With all of our familys trouble my entire family is never happy enymore. I can't take my family allways complaing about eachother to me. Some-times I even think I would rather kill myself. My parents don't listen enymore, they get mad when i try to tell them what there doing, even in the nicest way. I can't take it enymore and I don't want my little brother to have to deal with this when I go of to collage in four years. What should I do if no one will listen? Plese forgive my spelling, I don't want enny smart comments right now!
2006-11-12 03:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i've been there... it got so bad... i was diagnosed with MAJOR DEPRESSION DISORDER.... my suggestion... go to your doctor and tell them what is going on.. they can not tell anyone.... because of laws known as HIPPA..... they will probably give you medicines to help calm you down... as far as your mom and dad talkin to you about each other.... tell them that you refuse to listen to it... thats what i did.. and it quit... your lil brother.. take him out to have fun... take him to eat or have a movie night.. he needs to get out and be away from this also.... talk to him and see how he is feeling....
2006-11-12 03:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by hopelessly_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there any other family outside of your house you can talk to that can intervine? How about a student councelor you are comfortable with? That is not a healthy enviroment for you and you brother. How long has it been going on? has something happened in your family that may have caused this and will pass with time? Killing your self is never an option, your little brother needs you now to be there for him. when your parents are complaining to you about the other, tell them you love them both and won't take sides. Maybe when they see how your hurting they will stop. Sometimes grown up have big problems and don't always handle them very well.
2006-11-12 11:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by fatbrat64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone like a doctor or school counsellor. Get help fast! By the way you won't be helping your little brother any by killing yourself--that will make things worse. You can not fix your family, but you can get advice how to deal with what is going on. Get yourself and your brother some help right away, don't feel stupid or ashamed about accepting help!
Good luck!
2006-11-12 11:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have parents that do the same thing and really there is nothing you can do but move out, if they wont listen now they never will because they are to obsorbed in their own life and feelings. wash your hands clean i know it is easier said then done but if you get the courage you will be relieved on how wonderful life can be with out being surrounded in negativity. good luck.
2006-11-12 11:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking isnt the answer i know i tried but neither is waiting to see if it gets better becouse i tried that too and i wish i had answers for you becouse i have been there done that and it drains you and makes you feel torn between both partys but all i can say is walk away when they start there inconsiderate crap walk off and simply say i dont want to hear it if you have nothing nice to say dont say any thing it is hard i know but eventuay it will work it did for me. good luck take care and most of all this is there problem not yours dont hold your self accountable becouse they cant get them selves past the crap.
2006-11-12 11:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by angelsrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest family therapy. The parents have gotten off the track somewhere. Good luck and don't let your parents screw ups hinder you in your college career, or your dreams and aspirations. It sounds like you are smarter and tougher that the both of them.
2006-11-12 11:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing i can say is step away from the house 4 a little wile, take u and ur brother like...2 ur grandmas house or n e one eles intill ur mom and dad calms it down.maybe theres a big reason why there fighting.
2006-11-12 11:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by baby_face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to be a grown up. It is obvious that your parents are having problems. Sit them down and tell them that their problems are effecting you and your brother. Tell them that they need to figure out themselves, and NOT to involve you or your brother in discussions on it. Tell your dad that it is WRONG for him to tell you his opinions about your mom trying to get you to take sides.
Good luck, sounds like they need help.
2006-11-12 11:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i write diary when such thing occur
the best way to get rid of tention is to rite it out
you cant change it so no point trying just take off d tention by diary writin
n yeah ure right abt not makin any smart comments abt ure spells people made so many on me no one answered my que just commented like hell!!!
2006-11-12 11:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by fan#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something your parents are going to have to work out on their own. If it is bothering you that much, talk to the school guidance counselor, maybe they can help you.
2006-11-12 11:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋