how do you take a girl out when your parents dont allow dating?

Question

i am under 18 and my parents wont let me date how do i take a girl out with out my parents ever finding out.

Answer 1

You don't. Think about it, it is behavior like this that they probably are basing their decision. NO TRUST. Earn their trust. Ask them to trust you and prove you deserve it.

Answer 2

Can you go to the movies by yourself?
Does both parents work?
Tell them that you are staying late at school to study with friends and then right after school, you can take her out to a movie or something. I'm not a fan of telling someone to rebel but you are gonna have to.
It's too bad your parents are that way. It's sad to see that they have forgotten what being a teen is like.

Here's the problem...(pass this on to them if you think it will help)
IF you can't date, you will be missing out on the social maturity necessary to succeed in today's society. If you wait until after 18, there's so many lessons you will have not learned, and at that age, you are totally responsible for everything. You may never catch up. They are actually hurting you, not 'protecting' you.

Answer 3

don't! u need to wait until they feel its time for u to date. u have the rest of your life so, slow down and chill.
if u feel u are ready for this and they are just being stubborn then sit them down and tell them of your feelings. they will respect the maturity of your way to handle the situation. show them that u will be responsible and that u will bring the girls to your house for a few dates and see how things go. be mature about the whole thing and that will show them that u are ready to start dating. no yelling or screaming. even if they over react and tell u no then they may be testing u and u need to respect them and say OK,if that's how u feel and get up and walk out. they will respect your maturity and think about their actions and they will come to u and next time and u can learn how to communicate with them differently. they just need to know that u are mature enough to handle the situation.

Answer 4

why not ask your parents if you can have the girl over to your house to eat or watch a movie? if you pass this test, then they might not mind you going out. don't sneak around, you'll just get caught then that will only make matters worse.

Answer 5

Tell your rents that you want to invite a friend to a movie. Ask them if you would drop you off in front of the theater. Tell the girl to meet you in the lobby. Both of your rents will pich you up after.

Answer 6

tell them you are going to the movies with friends and have 1 of your guy friends and his girl double date with you and yours then have him pick you up in his car first then get the girls watch the movie then drop the girls off then drop you off then go home presto your secret date is complete oh and dont tell your parents which movie theater you are going to if you can help it and if they make you tell them that dont tell them what movie you are gonna see

Answer 7

Maybe you should talk to them about dating with other couples. Prove to them that you are responsible through your actions. Don't lose your parents trust, believe it or not, they are your best friends.

Answer 8

do they allow "hanging out with friends"?

there are other ways you should be able to spend time with her without having it labelled as a "date"

Answer 9

you have to ask another friend with you and it wont be a date and tell your friend to split away when you want to make your move.

Answer 10

say you are going out with your guy friends.... they do allow you to do that dont they?? and if u dont want to lie..make it like a group thing.. ur buddies and hers come along....