Why must guys leave your life as soon as they come busting into it?Its like all the sudden hey how you doing sweetie?after you dont talk to them for months and then lets hang out ..then they call call call and then all the sudden you dont hear from them for 2 days. Lets just stop this little tango okay...i suck at dancing.
2006-11-12 02:37:58 · 13 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are mostly just friends ....we have never hooked up before but i dont think that it really bugs him
2006-11-12 03:58:13 · update #1
I had asked my ex this question long ago. His answer was that guys like this are not ready for one girl. And most guys are TRAINED to go with as many as they can because life is short. So they have fun hurting girls that really care about them. But they don't stick around to access the damage that they have inflicted. And all this makes them feel like a man.
Most do not know that they have not only hurt the girl, but have damaged them as well. Most of these girl go through life with complexes and insecurities that affect them for the rest of their lives.
But many women know that this does not make a man a MAN. It makes them look more and more like children who cannot make a simple decision. Because they have so many obtions (women) in a world filled with all types of sexually transmittable diseases. Who cannot commit because they are too immature. They must grow up before before they can have a REAL relationship with anyone. They are taught not to commit. Not to settle down. Not to stick with one woman. They are taught to seek out, fine, and use women.
Well I have asked many men the question why cant you stay with one lady. YOU WILL BE SURPRISE AT THE ANSWERS!!
I askes my uncle and uncles friends, my brother and brothers friends, my male cousins and friends, I have ask people when i work and a friend of mind told me she asked a few of her male friends..........I got many answers but the one i have heard the most WAS.........BECAUSE THE WOMEN LET THEM!!
2006-11-12 03:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its simply the reason of the good relation U Have between U and the other Because If U are not going to talk for some time then the eagerness will increase the affection between U 2. so that only it was the gap between the 2 times of speaking
2006-11-12 10:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I have had the same problem. It really sucks that men come into your life and leave as abruptly as they came into it. I really suck at dating too. I always seem to find the assholes who just come in disrupt your life for a while and then can't seem to figure outh what they want. Good Luck.
2006-11-12 10:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by greenidlibra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys out there like that, once they have got what they want they move on, this may not of happened to you, i don't know. If it did i will just let you know they are not all like that, and its best to find out what they are like early on than months down the line.
Dance to your own tune, nobody elses
2006-11-12 10:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by fiona h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is very commen for us guys. Some types of girls (you, for example) are the type who want a stable guy with a stable mood. But most guys aren't stable, learn how to live with it, sorry :D My cousin also says guys are like this. well i hope this helped,
GoOd LuCk ;)
2006-11-12 10:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by J&B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause, cause, cause they are guys. They get distracted easily. If you give them what they are after they will move on to the next girl.
2006-11-12 10:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short attention span. You must keep yourself up front of other things going on without acting clingy.
2006-11-12 10:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people, young and old, just don't like making commitments.
2006-11-12 10:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy fuk woman, 2 days????????? he is probably taking a cr ap. calm down and have some hrt
2006-11-12 11:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by blackstuffguiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys want what they can't have...play hard to get!
2006-11-12 10:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋