2006-11-12 02:35:59 · 29 answers · asked by josh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is disrespecting you. Decide if she is "worth fighting for". Talk to her, and tell her that it hurts you to see her flirting with other guys. This will show her that you really care. If she continues to flirt, then you need to move on. She is being selfish, and you deserve better.
2006-11-12 02:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, ur girlfren is a flirt. Period. U being jealous (if dat's wat it is) is a sign dat u really love her, which means ur not such a bad guy for girls to fall in love with. Why chase her when SHE'S chasin someone else...don't ever let ur own ego down..believe me, it's devastating. If u still respect urself (which i doubt very much), go for the multitude of damsels available. Surely, a guy like u will still be able to bag two or three mo, seriously...Remember, a pea lost from a bag of 1000 is not worth looking for!! Sooner than later, u'll find urself being mo happy with a different chick, so jus let ur 'one n only' go her way while u go ur's. Life ain't that bleak, brother!
2006-11-12 02:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and talk to her don't do it jealously, tell her that when she flirts with him, it hurts your feelings and you aren't sure what to make of it. Put the ball in her court and have her decide what she should do..that will help you some. ask her what she thinks should be done...what would she do if she was in that situation etc. don't do it defensively just ask like you don't know why you feel that way and what could you do to not feel that way. She may volunteer not to flirt with him so she doesn't hurt you. You might just suggest that she just do it when your not around...that might be a good compromise so she doesn't think your trying to control her, you just feel bad when you see her doing it.
2006-11-12 02:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only Flirting. Everyone does, young and old alike.
If you're this worried about it, ask her why she does it and tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she can't respect it, rethink the relationship. However, just remember.....what comes around, goes around. I'll bet you've done it before, or more importantly will in the future.
2006-11-12 02:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes flirting with a popular guy at school then she prolly thinks ur not good enough for her and as soon as that popular guy shows interest in her then she will prolly dump you for him, so my advice is to beat her to it, dump her before she is able to do it to you.
2006-11-12 02:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by aprildarcie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure she's ur girlfriend. i am almost sure she's just ur friend. at least that's the way she looks at the problem.
what to do next? don't show needyness! b the center of her universe, not the other way around. what this means is, not to revolve around her satisfying without question all of her wishes. b a man. not a puppy waiting 4 bones from his master (cuz that's all u'll get).
2006-11-12 02:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the death knell, son. That's the problem with HS romances. They're HS romances. You can wear the wrong shirt to school and be at the bottom of the food chain so fast your head will spin.
2006-11-12 02:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the point of being in a relationship is to share time and intimacy with a person... ONE person.
this is how you can address it:
say 'listen, i'm just not okay with this. we're supposed to be dedicating ourselves to each other-- not wats-his-face. i need to ask you to stop.' if she doesn't do it, your in a bad relationship! u let her get away with stuff like that and you will find yourself with an unfaithful girfriend... more so than already. get yoursef out and go to a movie or something!
2006-11-12 02:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open about it and tell her it bothers you. If she cares enough, she will stop flirting because she won't want to "rock the boat." If she doesn't want to stop, it probably means she is not that interested in the relationship and then it's time for you to move on.
2006-11-12 02:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter and tell her how you feel, say that she wouldnt like it if you where flirting with a popular girl at school. letters work, you have a chance to write down exactly how you feel with out being interupted with excuses.
2006-11-12 02:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋