There's this girl who both me and my girlfriend hate due to a personality clash, this girl we hate makes hateful comments and doesnt like us being together (possibly coz shes single and has a reputation of not bein very attractive) but recently when shes being criticising me and saying how awful she thinks i am ive being noticing a strange attraction to her - ive heard of phobias turning into fetishes - maybe this is something similar - im not particulary attracted to her physically but i seem to get like ' a buzz' when she speaks to me in a nasty way and feel a certain enjoyment at her being 'in charge' of me and "telling me what for" - i know that will sound totaly strange ... any ideas?
2006-11-12 02:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by jamie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes what we hate about others is an aspect of ourself we don't like. And humans like those who are like ourselves.
Or you may have to admit to yourself that this vile person turns you on. Kinky!
2006-11-12 02:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get your girlfriend to do the whole dominatrix thing... sounds like you love a woman who takes charge ;-) however don't get involved with the girl you hate, as you have a girlfriend!
2006-11-12 02:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, this isnt as strange as it may seem. You are perceiving her as a challenge. Thing is, youve got a gf. If you dont wanna cause any waves, all you can do is attempt to stay away from her.
2006-11-12 02:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pmsllll yep thats a strange 1 but what ever floats your boat just remember you have a girlfriend but need to ask why do you even talk to her if she is that bad and does nothing but run you down
2006-11-12 02:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do like to be dominated. This is kind of a fetish actually. Nothing wrong with it nor with you. Have fun.
2006-11-12 02:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to spank you with her hair brush while she is criticising you saying how awful she thinks u r. you awful awful boy I should spank you for asking this question.
2006-11-14 00:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE YOUR JUST BEING A GUY ALL GUYS LIKE GIRLS WHO TALK NASTY. U LIKE HER PERSONALITY THATS BETTER THAN LIKING HER PYHSICAL APPEAR ANYWAY.
2006-11-12 02:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well face it, you're addicted to Love.
2006-11-12 02:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Gay? If you are who cares that you have a thing for another chick. Do what you gotta do!
2006-11-12 02:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur as weird as her. you two belong together.
2006-11-12 02:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋