so i thought i was pretty good looking but i could so esily call this into question. i can tell mostly all girls think theyre better than me and boys never talk to me. im kinda shy and i feel like people think im unaproachable. i see guys with girls a lot uglier and meaner than me but this is my first year in school with these people so i dont know but i see people there who used to go to my old school with people everytime i see them but there kinda slutty (yes, im calling a boy slutty) and a girl but im not like that. it just seems like everyones holding hands in the hallways except me. what wrong with me?
2006-11-12 02:31:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself, you don't need to dress yourself sexy. Your inner self is much more valuable than being attractive.
Nothing is wrong with you, except that you don't have enough self confidence, which you will need in daily life anyhow. Why should you want to be seen with a slutty boy?
(This between you and me, although I know everybody can read it: as a boy I was very shy, too, and now, after some time, I'm going to marry a very special woman!)
2006-11-12 02:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus so much on other people and what they think. With that said, start developing yourself as a person more. Maybe you are coming across as anti-social or even bitchy. I had this problem when I was younger, I was very shy and because I didn't go out of my way to talk to people, they thought I was stuck up.
It is not all about looks, looks will get you so far, a guy wants to be with a girl he thinks will be fun to be with - not one that just looks pretty.
Start taking on different interests and develop your personality and who you are as a person. A guy will come along, you need to take chances and learn to open yourself up to people and take chances.
2006-11-12 02:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this article. It has loads of good advice that will last you a lifetime. One of the things it says it that almost all girls think they are less attractive than they actually are.
If you think you're unapproachable, find a boy you like and smile every time you see him, make eye-contact and appear relaxed and friendly with him. Treat him as if he was already one of your friends.
2006-11-12 02:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Keep being confident about yourself. You don't need to waste time on guys who aren't worth it. When the right guy comes along, he will be brave enough to approach you :-) until then, have fun with your friends, because you'll miss being young and carefree when you are married with kids :-)
2006-11-12 02:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know one is prettier than anyone else because god made us all the way he wanted us. perfect. so when your down just think that you are not ugly you meet gods standards. and just wait guys will come after you soon so don't worry. until then hang with your friends.
2006-11-12 02:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl wish i could help but i feel the same way i guess we just have to wait and see
2006-11-12 02:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by singlelatinrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start dressing sexy...show off that bod, guys will notice!
2006-11-12 02:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, it takes time, wear hot clothes and flirt a little
2006-11-12 02:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Grant C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of yourself and have an attitiude.
2006-11-12 02:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by texasgiant14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love your self beauty is yours and yours alone
2006-11-12 04:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by res71guns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋