tell me what is the things that attract girls.....im usualy shy and cant talk to girls?

Question

dunno a reason of that but when i try to begin speeking with any girls (or even there r girls around me)...i feel afraid...so i need simple answer to solve my problem

Answer 1

i think shy guys r cute, but at the same time a girl wont ask a guy, so u have to have the balls to go up to her and atleast say hi, cuz a cute smile here and there will have her playing with her hair and thats a sign that she likes u, just be normal dont act like someone else and just talk about anything and then ull start to have a conversation and things will lead to another and good luck from there

Answer 2

Wow you must be going through alot i was reading your previous ?'s and it seems to me that you lack self-confidence in yourself. But you shouldn't feel that way that's what girls like confidence and personality and at most a person with a good heart. But i think that you should just relax and be yourself b/c ppl will like you no matter what. You see the thing is you gotta know how to talk to ppl it's like how expect to know some1 if don't try for it. I used to shy but sooner or later your gonna have to break out of your shell and let personality shine through what kind of person you are. And if your nice person inside then that take you a long way it will get you somewhere. Listen all i'm sayin is that you should go for it and not hold back b/c you think you can't do it. I know you can so you gotta believe in yourself and just be calm about. Well peace out i hoped this helped out.

Answer 3

a lot of girls r attracted to guys that r out going, but i dont think taht will help u a lot

try to hang out w/ people, even if u dont want to talk and stuff, just try to b there

over the summer i turned a guy from anti-social to social butterfly (he throws the best parties now), but i cant rele help a lot online. u just need to find a few people (mayb like a guy and a girl) to b rele close w/. once u start talking to one girl, it gets easier.
dont b afraid to look stupid, and dont b afraid to laugh at urself. girls luv guys that can laugh at themselvs

good luck

Answer 4

jus relax man
i know how you feel
i used to be like that for a long time, the more i liked the girl, the more i was shy towards her
butt.... i overcomed it
you jus have to be more open , talk to girls you like more often then your shyness will slowly go away
mine isnt completely away but i dont care because girls think of it as cute, but i'll still approach a girl (not that shy)
tell me if u need any more help man
good luck

Answer 5

Girls like guys who have confidence and go after what they really want, you have to be bold and just talk to them because no girl is going to want a guy who cant talk to them. Dont be afraid of us, were not going to judge you if u talk to us, we like it when guys can talk to us. If anything, we are prolly more shy around u than u are around us.

Answer 6

One thing that attracts girls is confidence, and it seems like you lack this. A good personality for girls is more important than good looks. So try to be cocky&funny, confident, and more like a man. GoOd LuCk.

Answer 7

Be yourself around them, act as if you were talking to your best mate, lets be fair if the girls don't talk back or are nasty to you then they are probably the sort of girls you want to know anyway

Answer 8

Confidence,but not *********.Try joking around with them...it's usually a great way to break the ice.

Answer 9

keep i mind that girls are shy too!!
besides, what are you afraid of?... that they might want to marry you?... chill out!! girls don't bite... unless you want them to! :) They are human, too!...
Go out with friends more, get to know people until you're pretty confortable talking to them... and don't be afraid of who you are!

Answer 10

treat her good and talk sweet with her. Dont talk a lot because thats bored.