scold me kind of sofltly for revealing something intimate (not sex)
to my friend.I feel bad for his scolding since he never got mad before.What can i do ?
2006-11-12 02:13:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really depends on what you told your friend.
if it is something that can hurt the relationship, than you have to offer your sincere aplogies...if he doesn't forgive you it's out of your court. he then has control over wether or not the relationship can continue in a heathy fashion.
BUT if you told your friend something that there's no point in getting upset about, that's totally his fault for getting angry. then you have to say- listen that was not something that could hurt either of us emotionally, so i have no control over your reaction!
2006-11-12 02:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you know that you made a mistake so stop feeling bad just don't do that again! LOL But on the serious side when you do something like that and in front of your friends it kind of puts him on a spot which most men don't like to be especially if it is one of your girlfriends...For that reason he feels like that was uncalled for and if you really think about it he might feel that by you doing that you might find something that he doesn't want you to find...What you can do from now on if there is something that is personal and you happen to pick up on it don't say anything out loud but pull him to the side and tell him in private that way he will not feel to be put on the spot...
2006-11-12 10:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe next time he tells you something private, you shouldn't share it with your friends.
You should appologize and not do it again, and then move on.
It could have been worse, at least he only softly scolded you and didn't beat you or dump you!
2006-11-12 10:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every love life is not perfect and there is a lot of bumps on the road for you and you b/f but that is normal
2006-11-12 10:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GFS AND BFS NEVER SHARE THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN PRIVATE UNLESS U TELL A FRIEND BUT DONT ALL THE DETAILS YOU RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE BETWEEN U AND YOU BF. WHEN U ADD YOUR FRIENDS IN THAT U GET CONFUSION AND LEADS TO HEARTBREAK AND LONELYNESS. I SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO U I HOPE YALL GET THROUGH THIS HARD TIME. PEACE OUT
2006-11-12 10:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol. you are pretty naive. the guy is probably playing you over. and im sure you will keep coming back to him, because most women go for men that are not good to them.
2006-11-12 10:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by $TEREOTYPE 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
appologize
tell him you'll never do it again
because you saw him hurt once and you NEVER want to see that happen again
jus hold him close, tell him you're sorry and wont do it again simply
ask if u need more tips
good luck
2006-11-12 10:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nick723 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to grow up. He has no right to scold you!
2006-11-12 10:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if it's really your fault, apologize..
then be really nice to him..
he probably reacted this way in the heat of the moment..
let him cool off.. =)
2006-11-12 10:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by Angie Pastrami 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make it up to him by giving him a bj
2006-11-12 10:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋