So she doesnt think it is right for us to love each other. I love her so much, but she isnt believing me at all. she says that she will be just be my friend. Should i leave her or stay with her? Please help.
2006-11-12 02:10:05 · 12 answers · asked by texasgiant14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a hard row to go with this one because women usually have a clear division in their minds -Friends (no relationships) and Boyfriend Material. Once you've been sorted into the friend pile, it is often very difficult to get into the other pile, especially if she's already told you that she's not into you like that. I would recommend that you spend your energies elsewhere on a fresh woman. However, I doubt you will abandon this woman without a good try so this is what you need to do.
1) Ask her out on a date. Not just a buddy buddy date, but a date.
2) Treat her like a date. Talk to her about what she is looking for in a man - not a friend. Talk to her about sex and other things. Find out what type of woman she really is - from a woman you might want to be with stand point, not as a friend. Touch her like you would touch a woman that you were interested in. Try to touch her several times throughout the night. Try to touch her, first just on the hand so that she can get used to you touching her. Work your way up to holding her hand. If she pulls away or lets you know she doesn't want you touching her, try again later.
3) At the end of the date, tell her you had a good time and try to kiss her. You must try to kiss her. She has to know that you are serious about trying to get with her and not trying to be her buddy.
The kiss will let you know where you stand. If she won't let you kiss her or if its brotherly/sisterly kiss, move on. Find a new girl because your wasting your time on her. If she lets you kiss her, you may have a chance. Take her out again and keep working on her. Good luck.
2006-11-12 02:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Maybe you should try to separate yourself from her just for a month or so and seek out other romances. I bet you find someone else you like just as much, and you can still maintain your friendship with girl 1. Close are friends are hard to come by...so take it slow. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-12 02:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 05:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much you meant to her or how much you love,and give her some time to think,keep your distance away from her and don't make an attempt to contact her, cause if she has feelings towards your ,chances are she will make an attempt to call you,but if she calls you and insist
about having just a friendly relationship with her then,thats the time for you to look for someone else
2006-11-12 02:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaar,leave her or just be friends with her,but my opinion is for u is that luv is not a heart of life it is only a part of life,it is only an infatuation i dont know your age but if u are a teenager than i can say enjoy life there are lots of more things to do &may u get better than this one{who may luv u more than yourself}
2006-11-12 02:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by radhika v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what love is. Stop throwing around that word. This is evidence that you need to back off and build a life for yourself.
2006-11-12 02:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend and see what happens! Maybe you are her idea of a friend, not a mate. Maybe you will find another. Don't get pushy and lose her as a friend.
2006-11-12 02:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nightflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b rele good friends. i had this problem too. i was stil his friend, but went out w/ other people. now i have a bf who is amazing, and im still best frineds w/ the other guy.
it worked out rele well
2006-11-12 02:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Be with her. One day she will express herself. Patients is very important on your side
2006-11-12 02:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by krishna k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. If you keep annoying her she'll hate you. Trust me, this thing happened.
2006-11-12 02:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by DarkAngel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋