When women "fall in love" what is it that they fall in love with?
I mean when they have boyfriends, why is it that they feel the need to turn him into what they want? I mean if I wanted to be something I'd be it!!! It's not like I spend my entire life waiting to meet that "special someone" that's going to turn me into something that I don't want to be.
I need answers, especially from women. Seriously.
2006-11-12 01:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by Nose Lobes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Couples should always be growing and changing together.. But there should'nt be one person tryting to make you into something you just aren't. there are compromises to be made though.. But not a complete 180
2006-11-12 02:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women fall in love with love.why they think they can change a person is beyond me.they seem to think being in love is a reguirement so they will fall for almost any guy and then start to complain about who he is,I tell my daughters that if you don't like a mans life syle when you meet don't sex him and then expect him to be some one else because you've come along.when my friends complain I say he is who he is and usually he was that person all along so what's the big deal now ?
2006-11-12 02:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never fallen in love really-i've jumped in though. i've never tried to "turn" my guys into anything. but that doesn't mean i don't ask them to consider me and my feelings. guys who are mean and want to date nice girls will have to change things about themselves if they want to keep the relationship. and i think that it's possible to love someone just as they are and know that they aren't good for you-take for instance, my wonderful boyfriend. great guy. my baby's daddy. completely horrible boyfriend who is capable of being a "friend" but not a companion and has no clue how to treat a woman. i suppose the most frustrating thing is that he doesn't care at all. i still love him but sometimes love has to be tough.
2006-11-12 02:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women that try to change men are often times trying to fix something from within themselves. An absent father figure, the boyfriend from yesterday, the inner pretty that she lacks. It's not that they want to change you...they want you to do what couldn't be done by the past and inside of self. "FIX IT"! ya know...
2006-11-12 02:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by passionfruit2571 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time we fall in love with ur personallity and just who u are but if shes trying to change you maybe theres just somthing she doesnt like about which means if u to arent in love with who u are now than maybe u shouldnt be together or try and talk about it
2006-11-12 02:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by my heart is broken 818 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are tyring to change you, it's because they want something out of you that you aren't giving. They want you, just not the excessive baggage. But I firmly believe, if they can't accept you the way you are, it's not what they want.
2006-11-12 02:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are maternal. They are bossy, and that is just the way it is. But the thing is, if a woman is with the right man, she will love him for who he is and that will be that!
2006-11-12 02:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by JenniferLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a women thing, just YURZ
2006-11-12 02:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Elle W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋