I have Boy/ Girl three year old twins and would like to move them into seperate bedrooms. As a multiple myself I think it would be better for them to be seperated and be able to be seen as seperate people not just as 'the twins'. My fiance thinks i'm being neurotic and that its better for them to share a room, as they are very close. Parents of twins was it difficult to place them into different rooms? Not sure how to go about it? Am i just being silly because i felt like we were just 'the triplets' growing up?
2006-11-12 01:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by Baylee_J 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
My son has nightmares sometimes and his sister being in the room calms him and doesn't make this a huge issue, so with the other concerns i'm torn between him falling into a habit of needed someone else in the room to sleep and consequently making the bad dreams, turn into a bigger issue.
2006-11-12 02:06:05 · update #1
First off they are two different people and deserve to be looked at too different people. They should have their own room, especially as they get older. But they might end up waking up cuddled to each other for a while and that's ok. They're twins and they do have a special bond, beyond being brother and sister.
2006-11-12 01:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a twin so possibly i'll help :) My twin sis and that i shared a room from start to age 7. when we were about to reveal 8, we moved right into a more beneficial abode and had the alternative of desirous to percentage a room. We immediately suggested "separate" b/c we had under no circumstances been aside and needed to be certain what it replaced into like. After a lengthy time period, i replaced into questioning if it replaced into an outstanding theory notwithstanding we were interior a similar abode nevertheless hehe. yet searching again, i'm so happy we've our personal rooms! we are now 17 and that i love having the ability to flow to my room, with my issues in it...that's an area interior the abode the position i'll basically relax and imagine....and that's inner most so i do not ought to percentage :) so i ought to provide them the alternative, yet possibly inspire the idea of separate rooms in order that as that once they're little ones, they're going to need their privateness! :) wish this helped :)
2016-10-16 08:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Twins shared the same bedroom until they were 5 years old at which time they had seperate rooms .
2006-11-12 01:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend had twins (2 girls) and she gave them separate bedrooms but in the morning she would find them in one of the rooms in bed together.
Maybe because for 9 months they slept in the same space....if they like sleeping apart then let them but don't force the issue until they're a bit older.
2006-11-12 02:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move them eventually if it's possible. For one thing, one is a boy and one is a girl. In a year or 2 they will have start wanting friends over to play and want space. I personally don't even almost consider fraternal twins as twins as they are pretty much the same as any brother and sister. For now I think it's OK to keep them together if thats what they want.
2006-11-12 02:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a good idea if you can afford it,they will remain close forever...I have twin boy/girl and they are 18. They are very over prtoective of each other. My son likes a girl in our neighborhood and my daughter told the girl to not hurt her brother or you will answer to me. My son let go of a friendhsip because his buddy disrespected his sister......
2006-11-12 01:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are right they should have seperate rooms they will still be just as close as they are now after all they are brother and sister, they need their own space to be themselves. you can move them now if you like or you can give them another year or two then move them but they will eventually.need seperate rooms as they get older good luck and God Bless
2006-11-12 02:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are 3 and becoming independent I personally don't think it is a bad idea to put them in separate rooms...especially since they are of the opposite sex, but how do they feel about it at 3 they can express themselves and let you know how they feel about it...good luck
2006-11-12 01:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i shared a bedroom with my twin until i was like 8. i didn't see anything wrong with sharing with a boy and im a girl. i don't even really remember sharing with my brother.
2006-11-12 04:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be better for them to share a room for a few more years coz if you seperate them they wont be as close
2006-11-12 02:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋