Well, I like this boy named Willy, I've asked him out once, and he said no, than my gurls asked him again without my permission and he said no again. He's soooo hot, athletic, and fine. Is he worth it should I keep trying or should i just move on with a broken heart?????
2006-11-12 01:46:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why keep trying to pursue somebody who is unwilling to reciprocate your love when I am sure there are others who would be honored to be your boyfriend?
2006-11-12 01:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
believe it or not this isn't the worse thing to happen. i'm sorry that some boy you like doesn't like you too but do you really know him? you have built up this in your mind that because he's hot and athletic he's also charming and eveything wonderful in a guy. I'll make you a bet if you got to see him at home you would find he's a slob or he's rude.. Move on, when someone says no you don't really have a choice.
2006-11-12 01:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by uknowme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. He wasn't the right guy. And some advice before you ask someone out again, try to get to know a guy before you ask him out. Try to see if he has any feelings for you first, because usually if a guy likes you, he will step up and make the first move. If you can see that the guy has feelings for you, you have less of a chance of being rejected.
2006-11-12 01:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, he obviuosly isn't interested. All your going to do by pestering him, is make him dislike you even more, because you'll be an annoyance then. If he wants you, he'll come looking for you. That's the kind of guy you want anyway. Someone that WANTS you not NEEDS you or will just agree to go out with you. Wait til one that you want comes after you...or at least you both mutually want each other.
2006-11-12 02:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY have a broken heart over someone with whom you never even had a relationship in the first place? Try looking beyond the superficial and stop trying so hard and tell your friends to butt out; that you are perfectly capable of speaking for yourself.
Don't throw yourself at this boy. He's not interested and it just makes you look desperate.
2006-11-12 01:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No boy is worth having to constantly ask and he just turn you down. Move on and forget him
2006-11-12 02:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie291404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more available you are to him the less he's interested.. Can you coincidently be in the same places as him? Do you have any mutual friends? He may just not be attracted to you and that's okay.. For every person who's not intererested in you, there's someone else who is. Dress cute when you're around him. but if you're appearing to eager or hard up, it makes it worse.. Plus, you have to decide what you'd want from him. If your sexy outfits grab his attention it may be only for one thing.. and you have to decide if that is okay with you..
2006-11-12 01:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this pattern will repeat itself through your life...you must learn to accept it...set your sights and targets lower, the good looking fit ones will not want you, unless you are special at sexual acts, so look among some of the twats on here Poster22 is a prime example xx
2006-11-12 01:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on. If he said no then no. Accept it. Harsh I know but you can't stay upset about it forever. You'll meet someone else, someone better, cuter, hotter, everything you'd ever want.
2006-11-12 01:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said no move on ... boyz will enjoy the fact you keep on asking ..... and as harsh as it is he will keep on laughing too ... if he has any feelings for you he will let you know ...so look on bright side billions of more big fish in the sea.... good luck ...x
2006-11-12 01:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋