some parent had many disputes and wanted their kids to side either one of them. sigh.......
2006-11-12 01:11:45 · 21 answers · asked by Dawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, children shouldn't take sides in parents' disputes; that only creates more problems!
2006-11-12 07:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their could be no newborn ransom money in any respect or little or no any way. 50/50 parenting is the respond to that if one parent has the newborn one million/2 the time and the different has them the different one million/2 then the will for newborn help is moot. Now whilst the dad and mom stay too some distance away or if the dad or mum is abusive then some variety of help is so as. And it is going to be utilized to easily what the newborn desires with the aid of fact the different parent does not get to have a say in something legally then that parent should not be in charge legally for extras. And the desires of the newborn could be 25% to the noncustodial parent and something to the costodial. and that i say that with the aid of fact the noncustodial parent has been rduced to a customer not an equivalent parent so assuming the non custodial parent could pay lots as 50% is ridiculous. If i would be held in charge for one million/2 of someones economic desires then I could have the potential to fulfill one million/2 of their emotional desires besides and which potential extra time to attain this. like each and every weekend and all summer. besides the custodial parent gets to maintain an better proportion of her earnings and gets a tax credit on the top of the 365 days. What do adult males get for paying 50% of the childs desires.
2016-10-17 04:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we shouldn't cause both (parents) are in responsible with what ever they are disputing and we shouldn't be involve cause it will not make the situation better nor help at all.
2006-11-12 01:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not..........children were not born to be pawns in anyone's disputes. Any parent who argues and fights in front of their children is wrong to do so
2006-11-12 01:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely no way should a parent even consider turning the children against the other parent and if they do or try, then in my opinion, they don't need to be a parent
2006-11-12 01:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to a certain point, it is best to settle a problem as a family, that will give your child a since of worth, but for both parents to fight each other while the kids are observing or in earshot is completely wrong.
2006-11-12 01:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my parents got divorced I had to choose between my mom and my dad.I had to move with my mum and my sister with my dad.I hated when I had to take that decision I wish we were a big and happy family.
2006-11-12 01:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by black_cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let them be grown ups and settle there own problems the kids have enough to take on in this world as it is .
2006-11-12 03:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they should not. Parents don't have the right to ask them to do so.
2006-11-12 01:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,no,no,no. that's between them. shame on any parent that wants kids to choose sides.
2006-11-12 01:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋