I've gone out with this guy three times and he is coming over for dinner tomorrow night (I'm cooking). Is it too early to ask if he wants to be exclusive? How should I bring it up?
2006-11-12 00:29:35 · 8 answers · asked by looking4aVacation 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never ask a guy that, always assume that you aren't. When you bring it up it puts pressure on them to say yes when they're not ready and that's when problems happen. Am not asking you to wait hand and foot for him to say it first, date other people at the same time but he has to bring it up first...that way you know for sure he wants it.
2006-11-12 00:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too soon to be exclusive, but I'm not sure I would ask him in case he got frightened off.
1) If you know he likes you a lot I'd say go for it, just say "I really like you, and wanted to know if you want to date JUST ME, or if you DON'T want to commit to just seeing each other".
2) If you're not sure how strong his feelings are, just wait patiently to see if he brings it up, being sure not to get too physical with him in the mean time in case that's all he wants. If he doesn't ask eventually you'll know he's not that into you.
2006-11-12 00:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I believe it depends on the person, if you are ready to just jump into it and sleep with him then go for it. If you are looking for a real relationship and want to get to know him I would wait a while....because the chances of the situation becoming about nothing but sex is really high. Don't ask him, just gesture to him and see how he reacts. He may feel it is way too early to be sleeping together and it might scare him away.
2006-11-12 00:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chum seems to have an somewhat gruesome character, he's performing passive aggressive and that i does no longer be shocked if he finally ends up having some important sexual issues interior the destiny. (Like desirous to have intercourse each 6 months only, or some thing of that kind). i wish you're no longer desperate and that your question is greater a reaction of being aggravated at his backs and forths...particularly than a adverse self-properly worth fact. Goodness, how are you able to choose for to share your days with him...he's uninteresting..
2016-12-28 19:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,It is way to early !!!!!! I'm even scared for him!!!!!!I Its not a subject you just bring up,it comes with time.Relax !!!! besides id have him make the decision,then you know hes ready.You already know how you feel,so when he mentions wanting to be exclusive its a done deal.
2006-11-12 00:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hotels and resorts are exclusive. If you want to be monogamous then your asking the right question. You have to ask yourself should I continue to sleep around or should I become a moral person?
You decide.
2006-11-12 00:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relation should be exclusive. No such thing as too soon.
2006-11-12 00:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's WAAAAYYYY too soon.
Take a deep breath, cutn to ten and just relax for eight to ten months.
"Fools rush in where wise women fear to tred"
Good Luck
2006-11-12 00:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by donamarie_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋