are guys put off by a girl who is 22 and a vi*gin? i'm a pretty girl and don't find it hard getting guys, i dont tell guys that im a vi*gin cos im not sure of how they would react. i do flirt a lot, and im not frigid, i just dont go the full way ;) ! i think as ive got older ive valued my vi*ginity much more than other girls at my uni, and i think ive got too picky about who my first will be. so do guys think its a turn off,knowing that a girl hasnt had s*x before?
2006-11-12 00:26:20 · 33 answers · asked by Sexy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Joey, why would you pretend?!!!!!
2006-11-12 00:28:56 · update #1
Why worry about what other people think, be proud of yourself and the right guy will come along for you
2006-11-12 00:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I dont think so. I think most guys would probably like it, Why? because that lets them be the first one who corrupts you sexually. HAHAHA. You know, you shoudnt feel ashamed or embarrassed of being 22 and still a virgin. I am just one yr younger than you and Im still a virgin too. I had this discussion with some guy friends of mine and they said they actually like when the girl waits as long as possible because when they finally do get the girl, its like getting a hard won prize. Thats a very demeaning thing to say but, they say they like it. Rock on girl!!!!
2006-11-12 00:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by funkucla!!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not the fact that your a virgin in itself. But the fact that you've stayed one so long, flirt, make out and whatever and don't go all the way.....makes you a tease. One thing you can't do is get a guy all hot and bothered without giving him some relief somehow. This is how date rape happens. In most cases women will make out let them get all hot and bothered get to feel her up etc....then suddenly stops...that's like trying to stop a freight train. They will get angry either way, but some might not be able to stop. Those that do are angry and label you a tease, so the only guys your gonna get, are those that consider you a challenge so they can bust your cherry and brag about it. Only to use you for their ego's sake. I'm not telling you to go out and get laid, I respect that you've kept it for that long. But I'm asking you not to tease a guy if you don't plan on going all the way with him...for your sake as well as his.
2006-11-12 00:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I would respect a 22 year old virgin much more than a 22 year old local bike who has been with everyone I know.
Although it's a bit bad if you're teasing blokes and leading them on, knowing that you'll blow them out when it comes to s*x
2006-11-12 00:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cracker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I dont think it is wrong. In fact i like to be with a virgin girl. It all depends on one' intentions. Some guys do not like virgins and some do. Depends. You may have your own expectations on whether do you wanna have a short term relationship with some one or long term. You will deal with that situation accordingly.
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tom
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2006-11-12 00:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys at your age want sex. There's nothing wrong with them wanting it just as it's up to you to not have it but when you're a young man wanting sex, you want it. Knowing you don't do it may make most guys think why bother and that doesn't make them bad people. Hell, most women want sex at your age.
If you're seriously wanting more than that from a guy then it's probably working in your favour for them to be turned off. That way you will know which ones are interested in more. I personally think you may be looking for something perfect that you may not find for some time but it's your body, you own it so do as you see fit for it.
2006-11-12 00:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've got a female friend who is 26 and is a virgin and she doesn't tell anyone including her other girlfriends cos she knows she's going to look like a fool. The older you get, the dumber this whole value thing is going to get believe me. And then instead of taking your time, you'll be rushing to find someone to lay just to get the experience.
2006-11-12 00:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Craiova 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If guys are turned off by it then they are the wrong guys. They are just looking to put another notch in the old bedpost. I'm your age and many times wished I had waited. Stick to your guns and when the right one comes along you will be so happy you did.
2006-11-12 00:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no guys wouldnt find it a turn off at all!! most guys love the idea of "picking the cherry". you should be picky on who it is. do want to look back in 5-10 yrs and regreat even being in the same room as the guy. find yourself a nice guy who values you instead of your sexual experience.
2006-11-12 00:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by lizard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey girl WELL DONE, you have respect for yourself & your body. Sounds to me like you have not met the right fella for you yet, when you do you will want to go the whole way & that person will be with you for life. Good luck for the future & your gonna make some man a very happy person. X
2006-11-12 00:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I actually think it is a turn on because I am 24 and I am still a virgin who is also picky about who my first time will be with.
2006-11-12 00:38:00 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋