2006-11-12 00:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
most of us face this problem but i really dont know if there is any solution to this .. especially in indian culture ..
2006-11-12 05:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by edifiz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will not change his ways, so you must adjust while you are living under his roof,, Do what you need to do and don't argue, he is set in his ways and won't budge.
Do not deceive him or lie, as that will cause only more problems. When you are closer to graduating, he might loosen up the reins a bit and if you have younger sisters and brothers, he will be bombarded soon with them on the attack as well.. There could be some hope before you graduate.....I know it isn't easy but he is the parent and you are under his care.....He has opinions and you should respect them, but you should also be developing your own.. you might want to keep them to yourself for now...
2006-11-12 08:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is from a different generation with a different upbringing and perhaps a different set of values. With that in mind, try to see his point of view. You don't have to accept it, but don't throw his advice completely away because of the proverbial "generation gap". Calmly consider what is said and always keep the lines of communication open. Ask him many questions about his experiences and what he has seen of others' experiences. You are allowed to have your own opinions. Many youth can't properly discuss their opinions with parents. If lines get drawn in the sand and heels get dug in, good communication never works. If you are going to throw things in his face that upset him, you may get the same thing back and then you are both upset and that doesn't help either of you. Show you can listen to him carefully. Your actions are ultimately up to you.
2006-11-12 08:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by muchmemory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strictness often comes from fear. The more you can lessen his anxieties about things, the less likely he will be to hold to his iron rules. Spend time with him. Talk to him about these things in a clam way so he does not retreat into his fears. Help him relax and become more understanding of your world.
2006-11-12 08:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should change your perception toards him. start treating hm more like a friend and share all your experiences with him, and try to discuss your problems with him. and before coming to a judgement place yourself in your fathers position once and think how you would react in a similar situation.
2006-11-12 12:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by veena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT LOOKS THAT FATHER ARE STRICT BUT THEY WANT GOOD FOR YOU. RESPECT THE FEELING OF YOUR FATHER AND TRY TO BE FRIENDLY WITH HIM.
2006-11-12 09:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put in ur heart and in your mind the things that your father do to you.because he just want better things just for you!!!!!!!
your father is strict to you because he wants u to be good!! why don't you spend time with him.....
2006-11-12 08:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by sandy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi priya try to understand your father why hes strick n when hes strick he has seen the world n knws wats good n best for us so wen v kids dont understand politely they need to b strick for our betterment tc
2006-11-12 09:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By sincerely and sensitively understanding his views and acts towards you.
2006-11-12 23:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you show him you can be trusted, chances are you will be. earn his trust, things will be easier for BOTH of you. JMO
2006-11-12 08:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋