There's this guy in school that likes me and continues to ask me out (note to people who have answered previous questions of mine, it is not the same guy that likes me and his friends bug me, totally different guy). But I don't like this guy, he's weird, annoying, and friends of mine that went out with him before said not to go out with him if he asked. He's annoying because he tickles me, does that back thing where you slide your finger down and it feels weird, asks me to come to his house (he lives near our school), he constantly talks about video games, and now he's asking for my email address. I want to get rid of this guy so badly but I don't want to hurt him (I'm the sympathetic type, and sometimes it sucks). I have tried telling him that I'm not ready to start dating, and it didn't work, he just said that we could be closer. Please help!
2006-11-12 00:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by Ravenra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him first off, please don't touch me. You are invading my personal space.
Women have been proven not to be able to stand up and walk away with no backbone. They lie in a heap and take all sorts of abuse because they cannot stand up...without a backbone.
If it hurts his feelings if you tell him in an assertive way that you are not a liar, so here is the truth, then oh well. Just tell him, I am not romantically attracted to you and I don't want you touching me anymore. We can be friends if you want to and if you don't, that is fine too. I think I will be able to live it with it. I am sorry but that is the truth. I will not lie to you or anybody.
2006-11-12 00:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I work in an aged care home and all the old men try it on I tell them I only date black guy (which isn't true colour means nothing to me) or I do the I have a boyfriend.Or you could always go the truth and tell him you don't like him in that way and what he is doing is making you feel very uncomfortable and if you doesn't stop you will not be able to be his friend any more.
2006-11-12 00:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Deanna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
the rude way is
bcum his gf torture him as he would be ready to do aby thing for u
make his life hell that he may be wating to dump u
( well i say no to this but it walways works)
the polite way is u tell him u already have a bf n u only have told him n ask him to keep this a scret well it also works fine
if he asks anything abt yur bf wellll ummm telll him
about me well it works me n my frnd did this to guy in school he was mad abt her n was totaly weird
2006-11-12 00:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna have to lay down the law hun. It might make you feel bad, but you'll feel worse if you allow it to continue, and you say nothing. You have to tell him point blank..even if it hurts his feelings, he'll respect you for it later. If he still won't leave you alone, get a restraining order...nothing says "no" better than a restraining order.
2006-11-12 00:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have once been in that situation before but what I did was just get him to notice me around a boy and get him jealous so he would no that you are not available.
2006-11-12 01:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur such a bit0-!!! seriously. you have to make it clear to him that ur below than not interested. what you did was letting him think that there's still chance. don't do that!!! u will hurt him even more than if u tell him directly "i don't like u, never did, never will". ofcorse, find ur own way to say that. the only reason ur not doing this is not that ur afraid of you hurting his feeling but u actually r afraid of how he might react.
2006-11-12 00:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u could either ignore him, or tell him that his behaviour is not appreciated, and if he doesn't stop, u will call the police. sometimes "tough love" is the only solution, so don't be afraid to show him that ur serious. otherwise i'll have to go over there and kick his butt!!! (hee hee). email me and let me know what happens
2006-11-12 00:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by thundergnome 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what about stay as far as you can from her. don't show up at places you think he'll show up. just avoid him. that might stop him. or just don't mind him. he might eventually stop when he's getting bored of doing things that won't caught your attention. hope that will work.
2006-11-12 00:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people need to be told off
2006-11-12 00:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont avoid him
the more u avoid him
the more he wants to disturb u
just fren him
2006-11-12 00:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋