at first my boyfriend called me all the time. now, he hardly ever does? i always call first and ask to see him first. last time i saw him, we were about to go to eachothers cars-- he said "i'll call you, later" and had a smile on his face, as if he was teasing me. knowing damn well that he doesnt call me. is he playing games with me? is he trying to see if i like him that much.
2006-11-11 22:46:02 · 14 answers · asked by sad girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that you aren't giving him enough space to show you that he can call, or even wants to. Sometimes you need to miss someone a little before you will call, and it adds spark to the relationship. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and it seems to me that you aren't giving him the chance.
Don't call him, wait for him to call you; or talk to him about it.
2006-11-11 22:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely your boyfriend is doing what all humans do (Not Just men)... when we think something or someone is securely ours we don't fight for it as much... fighting can mean for it's attention, or fighting to keep it strong, etc.... I think you need to talk to him about how you feel because most times people don't realize that they are making the ones they care about feel like that....and if that doesn't work don't call him, no matter how lonely you get, or how much you miss him, or even if he doesn't call you back right away ... wait till he calls you!
If he really wants you he'll break... But Please, Please don't try to make him jealous, because that may back fire and instead of having him pay you more attention, that could lead him to giving another your attention. So for now just don't give him as much attention. Let him remember that you are a beautiful, intelligent women and that many many men would love to be in his place, so he needs to keep his "A" game up, because you like most treasures are valuable and someone else is always looking to take you, so he had better guard you better. Guard you with more love and attention, and most importantly.... He needs to let you know that to him you are a treasure
Well hope this helps
2006-11-12 07:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by qwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games
2006-11-12 06:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this could go either way. he could be playing games, and just a jerk which it kind of seems like. or he could be scared that you dont like him that much and afraid to do the calling and such. he might be insecure.
either way, you shouldnt stand for it! tell him to be a man, and either own up to not being that into you and stop playing games, or if he truely likes you, tell him to prove it.
2006-11-12 06:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your self esteem has dropped a few points... Much like you should drop this loser. He makes you feel pain in your heart & anger in your mind... These are not good qualities in any man (or woman)... Spend your time with friends or family & get re acquainted with yourself & you will see him in a whole new light. Do yourself a favor & lose his number....
2006-11-12 07:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be your own worst enemy. Make a pact with yourself that you won't be the first to phone him next time. Wait patiently.
You are probably driving him mad. If he doesn't phone you, he probably isn't interested in you. Don't be so accessable.
2006-11-12 06:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ...you are..its called communication...plain talk..thats the road..tell exactly how you feel and what you need. most men including me hate games and have a heckuva time figuring women out..the best way to get what you want is....are you ready?....ASK.
2006-11-12 06:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is an question you have the answer to yourself but maybe you dont trust the answer, or you dont want to believe the answer. You could ask him directly but will he answer honestly?
2006-11-12 06:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's playing hard to get and layin games with you he wants to know if you lyk him that much not to brake up with him but the decisions yours m8 good luck.
pinky
2006-11-12 06:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by danni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is messing with u so my advice is to dump him and move on
i had a gf like that in 2003
2006-11-12 06:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋