first, i would like to say that i am not whorish. this guy was the one who took my virginity and many other firsts in my life. i have never had a boyfriend, im a little hesistant to trust guys, but the most i've done with other guys is makeout.we were friends who were attracted to each other, which is why we decided on the situation anyway. he's also a little scared of being open emotionally, and has only had one girlfriend who he said he didn't love. he's been with a couple of girls, but nothing serious. now, the thing is, i was fine with the situation, but after a couple of months when he began saying all the stuff (him being jealous, thinking about me during the day, i make him laugh, we're a good combo...etc) it made me see him in a different light. what it boils down to is im worried that im wrong he likes me, and if i put myself out there i dont know what will happen. and he has opened up about things to me, which is another reason i thought he liked me too. should i just ask?
2006-11-11 22:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask, share, and stop worrying about that phrase whorish
A 92 yo woman made me a beleiver that the things you do when you are young are the ones that will carry you through old age
a little "whoish" is fun, enjoy it
2006-11-11 22:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Sounds to me like you're afraid of trusting your heart.
My best friend told me that over and over in this life there are different things which will break our hearts but its how we recover from that hurt and change is what defines us.
Seems to me that he's becoming a bit possessive over you which we welcome because we like him.
So here's what you do... You wait for him to make the moves with gentle nudging.
He seems to be falling in love with you and soon all will come to light.
I know you might be a bit impatient but he looks to you as the woman he shared so so so many firsts with that he's sure you're special.
If he's shy I guess you could ask and tell him you like him... if not give him time and he'll come around.
2006-11-11 22:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop changing your story you got drunk and hooked up with some man that wasn't your b/f that's whorish but that's besides the point......and stop having sex with people that you don't "put it all out there with" in the first place because its whorish....god how old are you like 15?,welcome to the adult world.... stop wondering what will happen twit......and talk to the man
2006-11-12 00:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?! He took your virginity, yet you were never boyfriend/girlfriend? We'll come back to that one another time...
For the matter at hand, yes, put it out on the table how you feel about him... if he balks, cut your losses.
2006-11-11 22:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you never put yourself out there you're going to be a bored lonely person..I say go for it.
2006-11-11 22:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what he meant when he said that. if you get a positive response, then tell him you would like to make it permanent.
2006-11-12 02:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Akela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just ask!
2006-11-11 22:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋